I finished my PhD last year and am now applying for lectureships and postdocs. I have one dd, 5 in July, who is in reception and goes to a CM twice/week.
I want to continue to pick her up from school 3 days/week so I will be asking to drop a full time post down to 4/days week, 3 in the dept and 2 half+ days at home. How realistic is this? How likely am I to be committing professional suicide? When should I mention this - at the interview or only if I am offered a job?
Worse still, most of the jobs are coming up in London which would be a 1.5 hour+ commute by car and rail each way. Even worse, dh travels regularly for work, so cannot be relied on to get her to her CM who could take her at 7.30 am (but that would not get me to a 9 am lecture in London on time).
The child care issues are daunting and paying to commute and for a part-time nanny on junior lecturer's salary is depressing. What do other people do?