Have posted in pregnancy but someone suggested I post here too as lots of knowledgable HR people about so here goes:
Because I have come to the conclusion that I cant!
I dont want to be seen as a wimp in work, and I know thats how they already see me, having had 3 weeks off (not all together) on bed rest during the last 6 weeks.
I will not be taking Mat Leave until 35 weeks, and I know they cannot force me to take until 36 weeks.
My job is quite physical, lots of stretching, standing, pushing, pulling, lifting (although can be minimised). I can spend up to 2 hours at a time standing in pretty much one place.
I have had weeks off due to sheer exhaustion, I can manage a week (4 x 10 hr days) but then feel like I need a week to recover.
Do I see my doc about getting a longish sick note or speak to my employer