I have just had to go back to work 4 days after having DS (4 months) which is horrible but I have no choice. I have had 5 months off in which time we have moved and DS was born. DD has reacted really badly to me going back to work and has started wetting herself and generally being upset and naughty. grannies are doing 1 day each and CM 2 days. Has anyone got any tips to help her, I feel so guilty, thanks xxx