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Demotion or stay and fight?

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Holdonforsummer · 05/03/2026 21:05

I work as a senior manager, managing about 30 people. For about two years, it has been awful: a small minority of the people I line-manage are rude and hostile. HR aren’t supportive and can be actively unpleasant. My boss is weak, frequently off work and inconsistent. In short, I have been very stressed for the last two years. A few weeks ago when it got particularly bad, I applied for a role in a different team (same company): it is a technically a demotion and about an £8k pay drop but the idea of doing something new with new people is very appealing. While I was waiting for an interview for the new job, my boss’s boss has got involved and is now saying she is going to help me turn the situation and my current team around. I don’t know if I believe her or if it is even possible. I interviewed for the new (lower) role today and feel they might offer it to me tomorrow. My dilemma is: accept demotion and an £8k pay drop or stay and accept help to turn my current toxic team around (with no guarantee of it working). Jobs in the new team don’t come up very often. What would you do?

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Holdonforsummer · 10/03/2026 21:54

Thanks everyone. I was offered the job today and the relief I felt when I heard says it all. I’ve asked for the best £££ they can give and will hear back tomorrow. If it is half decent, I am going to go for it and not look back. I know I am lucky to be able to afford a pay drop but I know it will be worth it in the long run.

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NutButterOnToast · 10/03/2026 21:59

Well done.

I didn't see this thread before but taking the new job is the most positive move.

Leave the dementors to make the next bosses life hell. Like PP said your management had 2 years to fix the issues and didn't bother.

Ilikewinter · 10/03/2026 22:10

Congratulations 🥳, I bet you go into work tomorrow with a spring in your step. Just wait until the day you hand your notice in, I bet your manager offers you everything including the kitchen sink to stay!

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