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Possibly screwed over by AI

231 replies

Zkr623 · 19/11/2025 15:56

In the interests of time and to avoid errors, I wanted to reply as quickly and smoothly to an interview request by email from a recruiter who wanted to move to the next step. So I let my AI app formulate a quick reply. Only after sending, I noticed AI had added a telltale 'signature' to the bottom.

" Thank you for reaching out. Thursday, November 20th at 1pm works perfectly—I’ll be available and looking forward to our conversation.

You can reach me at (XXX) XXX XXXX.

Best regards,

Would you like a slightly more casual or more formal version as well? You can reach me at 2XX XXX XXXX

"

Am I screwed? AI suggested a followup to tell her to disregard the last email BUT that would just draw more attention to it. I am so embarassed. Aren't recruiters trained to look for details? Is this over?

Possibly screwed over by AI
OP posts:
Bluebigclouds · 19/11/2025 19:06

dynamiccactus · 19/11/2025 18:59

There seems to be a massive double standard when it comes to AI and recruitment.

It's fine for employers to use it to the extent that they don't even speak to people, they just use a bot.

But woe betide any candidate who uses it.

However, OP, if you do use it, you do need to proof-read properly. And don't use "reach out". Unless you are in the US. Its use seems to have exploded in the past couple of years and it makes no sense. What was wrong with things like get in touch or contact?

I think "reach out" is now so widely used its not an issue. I don't like it much but I wouldn't judge/dismiss someone for it - especially as applicants may not be British.

Would judge someone for not proofreading though.

namechange272727 · 19/11/2025 19:07

Just a quick tip - a big give away you’ve used AI are m dashes (sp?), a longer than normal dash. So even if you use AI I would edit to replace those with normal dashes.

PistachioTiramisu · 19/11/2025 19:09

I'd have binned your application on reading 'reaching out'!

ToKittyornottoKitty · 19/11/2025 19:11

PistachioTiramisu · 19/11/2025 19:09

I'd have binned your application on reading 'reaching out'!

It doesn’t say that?

Namechangerage · 19/11/2025 19:12

Zkr623 · 19/11/2025 16:10

I didnt NEED it. I chose to because I was being lazy. 🤣

But on the other hand if someone is so nitpicky and shallow that they are looking so deeply into what is essentially nothing more than a really informal and quick confirmation email, then im not sure I'd want the job anyway. Isn't it?

Nah, if someone was so lazy that they couldn’t write a two line email, I’d be very concerned about their ability to do the job. And I use chatGPT quite a lot.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 19/11/2025 19:18

ToKittyornottoKitty · 19/11/2025 19:11

It doesn’t say that?

Nethermind, I can see now OP had typed it but it didn’t show in the screenshot

PiccadillyPurple · 19/11/2025 19:19

I recruit and it wouldn't bother me. Where I work, using AI is heavily promoted. I would view favourably a (brief) follow-up email apologising for the error. It would show you cared and were owning the mistake.

FjordCortina · 19/11/2025 19:22

OhCrumbsWhereNow · 19/11/2025 17:56

You would have to be the most amazing candidate ever at interview for me to get past that.

Not because you used AI, but because you didn't care enough to double check before you pressed send and I would be concerned I'd have to spend my time micro-managing and double checking things.

However, it's not as bad as:

The candidate who sent their cover letter and cv in 8 point bold Edwardian script as a pdf (I have no clue what they wrote as it was impossible to decipher).

The candidate whose entire application was: 'Plz check my Insta to see if your company is gonna be a good vibe for me.'

Or the engineer my son was interviewing over Zoom who had long pauses before he answered questions.... It didn't take long for DS to twig that the guy was using AI to answer him and didn't actually understand his subject!

Whatsthatsheila · 19/11/2025 19:23

Zkr623 · 19/11/2025 16:10

I didnt NEED it. I chose to because I was being lazy. 🤣

But on the other hand if someone is so nitpicky and shallow that they are looking so deeply into what is essentially nothing more than a really informal and quick confirmation email, then im not sure I'd want the job anyway. Isn't it?

Well you said it yourself. - it comes across as lazy…. Why would they want a lazy person working for them?

fruitbrewhaha · 19/11/2025 19:24

Shallow and nitpicky! Yeah, that’s right, it’s so shallow not to employ someone who can’t send simple correspondence with any attention to detail.

boxofbuttons · 19/11/2025 19:25

Initially this was an immediate no from me (sorry OP). In that I think it looks lazy/like you don't know how to write a basic formal email which is key in a lot of jobs/you've got no attention to detail.

However, I can foresee it being argued in employment tribunals and the like in the future as an accessibility tool (and therefore potentially grounds for claims of discrimination, although that would be very hard to prove in this specific case) AND some employers are very pro-AI. So it's possible that some will be less bothered!

boxofbuttons · 19/11/2025 19:28

Also I don't think you can argue AI screwed you over. You screwed yourself over by not checking.

usedtobeaylis · 19/11/2025 19:28

I think people are vastly overestimating how a lot of people respond in the recruitment process. It used to drive me insane because I'm a stickler for professionalism but I'm now well used to people responding with typos and as if they're writing a text. Actually it does still drive me insane but we generally err on the side of going with their application and the interview. We've never withdrawn an interview slot on the basis of it and never would. The actual panel would rarely be involved in the interview admin anyway.

EvilCrab · 19/11/2025 19:29

Tbh there are two issues.

Using AI to write a single sentence. You really couldn’t do that yourself?

And the lack of care and proof-reading.

But it’s irrelevant anyway, a recruiter will not care.

Slothisavirtue · 19/11/2025 19:30

I don't mind intelligent use of AI but brainless use without checking would really deter me

Wolfpa · 19/11/2025 19:30

You screwed yourself over not AI. I work in a job where attention to detail is needed and so wouldn’t take your application forwards

justneedgoodsleep · 19/11/2025 19:32

Jumping on your post here, saw a few comments saying perfectly is spelt wrong. What’s the correct way to spell it? Genuinely confused.

HildegardP · 19/11/2025 19:34

If you'd sent it to me, yes, you'd have binned your chances. It suggests that you're lazy & slapdash, & those are rarely qualities sought in an employee.

ThatCyanCat · 19/11/2025 19:36

justneedgoodsleep · 19/11/2025 19:32

Jumping on your post here, saw a few comments saying perfectly is spelt wrong. What’s the correct way to spell it? Genuinely confused.

Look at the screenshot in the OP.

justneedgoodsleep · 19/11/2025 19:37

ThatCyanCat · 19/11/2025 19:36

Look at the screenshot in the OP.

Ahh thank you! Missed the image attached and thought I’ve been spelling it wrong my whole life!

Owly11 · 19/11/2025 19:38

Do you really have to ask? You seem to struggle to put yourself in the other person's shoes.

MoonKiss · 19/11/2025 19:38

Sloppy sloppy sloppy, and aside from that YABVU to use the words ‘reaching out’ in any context ever. The whole email reflects badly on you.

2/10, must try harder.

HildegardP · 19/11/2025 19:41

TashaG · 19/11/2025 18:38

Did anyone see the Pakistani Newspaper that wrote a whole article on ChatGPT and forgot to take the prompt out - it was in the news last week 😂

Seriously, I don't see an issue with using AI to write emails or reply to job adverts but you really need to proofread it carefully and make it less "AI" which is where you went wrong. I'd be prepared to be called out on it during the interview or for the interview to be cancelled, depending who the email was for. Not for AI use or laziness but for lack of attention to detail.

Also, I have had to stop using emdashes when I write! I used them loads and everyone thought I was using AI - they are a total giveaway to AI use!

If dashes were good enough for Emily Dickinson, they're good enough for any human. 😆You've reminded me of this by Wendy Cope though;

Higgledy-piggledy
Emily Dickinson
Liked to use dashes
Instead of full stops.

Nowadays, faced with such
Idiosyncrasy,
Critics and editors
Send for the cops.

LizTruss · 19/11/2025 19:42

101Alsatians · 19/11/2025 16:23

Can you give us an idea of the role/field?

Trying to thing of a positive spin....

Civil surface?

ZenNudist · 19/11/2025 19:42

Not screwed over by AI. Screwed over by yourself. If the recruiter misses this lack of attention to detail and recruits you, they only have themselves to blame!