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Huge pivot in new job role and I’m struggling

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SomeKindOfMeh · 17/06/2025 16:02

Last year I landed my dream job in my dream company. I’m 49. Lovely team, amazing boss, all good. It used all my skills and I took on extra training in my own time to improve other things.

it turned out there was a gap in our output and my lovely boss suggested I could be the one to do that. I launched myself into it with all my enthusiasm, training myself up on the side. But now the role has changed so much that it no longer uses any of my skills. Instead, it requires totally different skills that I don’t have.

i can’t be too specific but it’s like I was hired to be a plumber, then asked to do a spot of minor plastering, and now my job is suddenly all plastering.

I don’t mind learning new skills but there’s been no mention of training. I’m not churlish enough to use my hours (I’m part time) for all that training, so I’m doing stuff in my own time.

I think what I’m most struggling with is that I no longer feel I’m doing a good job, and no longer think I’m the best person for this role. I look at established plasterers and think it would make more sense for this company just to hire one of them.

What do I do? I’m stressed and upset. My boss is great and doesn’t expect me to be a great plasterer, but how long before he realises he needs a plasterer, and gently gets rid of me? 😢

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tripleginandtonic · 25/08/2025 06:06

SomeKindOfMeh · 24/08/2025 22:18

An update on this…. It’s actually been going really well. I just hurled myself into learning how to make videos, and it’s gone really well. I recently had my annual review and received glowing feedback and a bonus. ?!?! I didn’t expect things to go this way 😂

Never too late to teach an old dog new tricks.You should feel proud of yourself. Maybe nows the time to ask for a youngster to be hired to help you and you can maybe go back to more of what you want to do?

WaitWhatWhatWait · 25/08/2025 06:14

SomeKindOfMeh · 24/08/2025 22:18

An update on this…. It’s actually been going really well. I just hurled myself into learning how to make videos, and it’s gone really well. I recently had my annual review and received glowing feedback and a bonus. ?!?! I didn’t expect things to go this way 😂

That's a lovely update! Well done you @SomeKindOfMeh 👏 👏

MollyButton · 25/08/2025 06:20

You need to have a proper talk with your boss. Start by getting your points worked out.
You were hired to do X
You have been asked to do Y, which requires a whole other set of skills. They need to invest in training for you to be able to do that effectively. And regardless of you being part-time all of that should be during work hours.
In fact is it even possible to do Y during your limited hours?
Just because someone asks you to do a full-time role in part-time hours doesn’t mean you have to do it.

JimmyGiraffe · 25/08/2025 06:47

SomeKindOfMeh · 24/08/2025 22:18

An update on this…. It’s actually been going really well. I just hurled myself into learning how to make videos, and it’s gone really well. I recently had my annual review and received glowing feedback and a bonus. ?!?! I didn’t expect things to go this way 😂

Great news!

SomeKindOfMeh · 25/08/2025 16:50

MollyButton · 25/08/2025 06:20

You need to have a proper talk with your boss. Start by getting your points worked out.
You were hired to do X
You have been asked to do Y, which requires a whole other set of skills. They need to invest in training for you to be able to do that effectively. And regardless of you being part-time all of that should be during work hours.
In fact is it even possible to do Y during your limited hours?
Just because someone asks you to do a full-time role in part-time hours doesn’t mean you have to do it.

Yes. You’re right. I’ve actually been good at pushing back on stuff that’ll push me over my allotted hours.

except the extra training - I have been doing that in my own time.

I am starting to enjoy the new tasks more than the ones I was originally hired for! 😂

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