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The Cleaner in work is pouring full fat milk into the low fat milk.

269 replies

AwayWithTheFairiesX · 17/10/2024 10:07

I work in an office of a factory. We get 8 litres of full fat milk a day delivered . I asked around to see if I changed 1 of the bottles to low fat milk if anyone one would mind. They all said ok so I was given permission by the accountant to change it. The cleaner seen the low fat milk in the fridge and freaked out . interrogating everyone to find out who changed. she demanded I change it back even though i don't answer to her. She is feer mongering anyone who drinks saying ' I can't believe your drinking' 'that's the last bottle of that you will see' . Hiding in the back of the fridge and refuses to put it inth same section as the other milk.. But the worst of it happened this morning when i realised she poured over half a litre of full fat milk into the carton of low fat milk. What the hell do i do in this situation because i know if i go to management they will laugh at its ridiculousness and wont take it seriously. I don't like confrontation so i dont know how to best approach.

OP posts:
Miniopolis · 17/10/2024 15:28

Couldyounot · 17/10/2024 12:14

Imagine having the time to waste on pointless bollocks like this. If I wasn't happy with full fat I'd just bring my own and forget about it

Yet you had enough time to give your opinion on a thread about it.

OhTediosity · 17/10/2024 15:29

DoIWantTo · 17/10/2024 15:25

Sorry she’s a cleaner? And thinks she has any say over what the factory workers eat or drink? I’d be reminding her she’s just a cleaner. Give her a head pat and tell her if she fucks with other peoples stuff again you’ll fuck with her.

She could be the managing director and it would still be unacceptable for her to tamper with food or drink. Nothing to do with being ‘just a cleaner’.

Startinganew32 · 17/10/2024 15:48

I’d take her to one side and warn her that if she doesn’t stop her bullshit you will make it your mission to get her disciplined and fired. That’s her chance to pipe down, if she doesn’t, then go to town on her and insist she is removed.

ByTealShaker · 17/10/2024 15:52

If she really did that, she’s a psycho. Mention it to management, otherwise they are wasting money on low fat milk. Obviously it’s got zero nothing to do with her.

viques · 17/10/2024 15:57

BaconMassive · 17/10/2024 10:26

As a joke I'd smuggle in some other types of milk and leave them in the fridge for her to find.

That could be amoosing, as long as someone didn’t grass you up , butter make sure you do it when the office is empty.

MzHz · 17/10/2024 15:58

AwayWithTheFairiesX · 17/10/2024 10:34

Yes, She has been here for many years. Part of me wants to be petty and get some harmless revenge lol. but that's probably not a good idea and i would only be stooping to her level.

WTAF? be petty? why would you waste energy with this?

You simply EXPLAIN to the cleaner that YOU made the request, checked with management and it's authorised.

Tell her that you drink low fat milk, and others do too, if it runs out it runs out, and perhaps more can be ordered in future, but she needs to leave the milk alone.

All this 'oh i don't like confrontation bollocks, how utterly WET! woman up FFS! you are old enough to get a job, you are old enough to ask about getting different milk you are plenty old enough to explain the situation to the cleaner.

chickennoodless · 17/10/2024 15:58

LOL at milkgate! Can’t believe this is real!!

two choices….

  1. bring your own milk
  2. all out milk war and battle it out
caramac04 · 17/10/2024 16:08

BaconMassive · 17/10/2024 10:26

As a joke I'd smuggle in some other types of milk and leave them in the fridge for her to find.

Yes! Oat milk, soya milk, almond milk on different days. Just a small amount though in case she chucks it away

AuntieJoyce · 17/10/2024 16:11

ForPearlViper · 17/10/2024 14:11

Just a mad idea. Maybe, she saw two opened, half full bottles of milk in the fridge and decided to consolidate them into one without clocking that they were different fat percentages. By doing this she would be tidying the fridge whilst cleaning which is, I think, within the role of an office cleaner.

Whilst I appreciate that this detracts from the many posters who believe she is an insubordinate, cheating, stealing, food tampering, dietary fat zealot, I belive this might just be a simpler explanation.

I appreciate it wasn't the best idea given people's very strong views on the fat content of milk but surely a 'Hi Sue, would you mind not putting the low and full fat milks together next time, I'm watching my diet' would suffice.

But, hey, you could just take the nuclear options suggested above if you like drama in your life.

That would be a perfectly feasible idea if she hasn’t freaked out at the thought of skimmed milk going into the fridge. As set out in the OP Confused

Zahariel · 17/10/2024 16:16

Foxxo · 17/10/2024 13:54

I'm not seeing what's funny about this?

Its batshit, potentially dangerous, and people are taking the piss.

FFS, talk to management and stop being stupid about it.

this!

godmum56 · 17/10/2024 16:20

AgileGreenSeal · 17/10/2024 10:30

This.
If she’s decanting full fat into another container who knows what other stunts she’s pulling.
I would consume nothing from that fridge unless it’s in an unbroken sealed container.

This.

Irridescantshimmmer · 17/10/2024 16:21

High fat milk does cause blood sugar issues/high blood glucose for diabetics, so if anyone has diabetes in your office, don't give their name but like another poster says you could use dietary requirements as a reason to justify having a lower fat milk.

I understand diabetes because I have been T1D since childhood.

There is only one reason why a cleaner would interfere with your milk and that is if they have personal reasons to, such as she does not like the skimmed or semi skimmed milks. It is likey because she is using full fat milk herself so the issue is potentially selfish actions of the cleaner.

What your oganisation does about this is up to them, I think someone with direct no nonsense approach such as a manager who does not mince their words should speak to her because if she is helping herself she's a cheeky so and so.

BluebellsareBlue · 17/10/2024 16:24

Apart from her actions being utterly bat shit, what would she do if someone had some sort of allergy and needed a different kind of milk? Put them in danger of becoming ill?

Fromage · 17/10/2024 16:36

Hmmm.....as it's a factory....

Is your cleaner Greggggg Wallace?

He's always lurking around a factory.

Also what does your factory make? Please say milk cartons.

ThisOldThang · 17/10/2024 16:50

There is a taboo, for a reason, around messing with other people's food. I wouldn't like this behaviour, at all.

GreenBlinker · 17/10/2024 16:54

I would say something... we had a guy in my office who was drinki milk straight out of the bottle and then put the bottle back to the fridge!!!

Ivehearditbothways · 17/10/2024 16:58

ThisOldThang · 17/10/2024 16:50

There is a taboo, for a reason, around messing with other people's food. I wouldn't like this behaviour, at all.

It’s not taboo. It’s a crime.

MonaLisaDoesntSmile · 17/10/2024 17:01

DustyAmuseAlien · 17/10/2024 10:19

My guess is that she's in the habit of taking the leftovers home. If she's a cleaner she's probably not well-paid. 8 litres is a lot of milk and I guess that it's enough that she can usually take a pint or two home each day but if it goes down to 7 litres of full-fat plus one that she wouldn't touch she's likely to be worried that she won't be able to do this any more

But that's theft and she should not be doing that.

LlynTegid · 17/10/2024 17:27

It is contrary to health and safety responsibilities which all people at work have. Talk to your safety rep if you have one.

Cherrysoup · 17/10/2024 17:37

Batshit! I’d be furious, I don’t react well to full fat milk. Can’t you just speak to her and tell her to stop fucking messing? Why is she going near the milk?

elderflowerspritzer · 17/10/2024 17:47

It's not ok to interfere with other people's food and drink.

You need to speak to a manager - she is out of order (and also sounds a bit bonkers but that's neither here nor there!)

nocoolnamesleft · 17/10/2024 17:49

Shame you can't work due to the crippling gall bladder pain triggered by accidentally consuming a high fat product...

CustardySergeant · 17/10/2024 17:49

Wherefore · 17/10/2024 12:55

I suspect that for the cleaner, it's yet one more thing that she needs to remember to do, maybe it wasn't in the job description, and noone asked/told her about it. Maybe she has reached her limit and is passive-aggressively rebelling.

What do you mean by this? Why do you think she needs to remember to do anything with the milk? 😕

Wherefore · 17/10/2024 18:08

CustardySergeant · 17/10/2024 17:49

What do you mean by this? Why do you think she needs to remember to do anything with the milk? 😕

Ah, sorry. I think I misunderstood and thought that the cleaner was having to deal with all of the milk bottles - it sounds like she should have nothing to do with the milk?

OneBadKitty · 17/10/2024 18:11

Irridescantshimmmer · 17/10/2024 16:21

High fat milk does cause blood sugar issues/high blood glucose for diabetics, so if anyone has diabetes in your office, don't give their name but like another poster says you could use dietary requirements as a reason to justify having a lower fat milk.

I understand diabetes because I have been T1D since childhood.

There is only one reason why a cleaner would interfere with your milk and that is if they have personal reasons to, such as she does not like the skimmed or semi skimmed milks. It is likey because she is using full fat milk herself so the issue is potentially selfish actions of the cleaner.

What your oganisation does about this is up to them, I think someone with direct no nonsense approach such as a manager who does not mince their words should speak to her because if she is helping herself she's a cheeky so and so.

Eh?
High fat milk is supposed to be better for diabetics because the fat causes the carbohydrates to be absorbed more slowly. Low fat milk has the fat removed, not the sugar.