I have been employed in my current place of work for over 20 years- always received excellent performance appraisals and had an excellent attendance record. Until now. I am currently facing disciplinary measures related to overpayment following a long term sickness absence (which followed a prolonged period of bullying from a new line manager).
Unfortunately my Trade Union rep has been very poor. I know he does this in a voluntary capacity (for which I am obviously grateful) and his job has been very pressured but it has been very difficult. He doesn’t answer calls or emails, doesn’t provide advice, he didn’t forward me the ToR and other correspondence from the investigation team nor did he pass on the final report until after the deadlines for me to reply.
Fortunately I managed to agree an extension on the final response but it has added to the pressure of an already difficult situation.
He has also responded to the bullying in a pretty dismissive and what I consider to be unprofessional way. It is not an understatement to say that the bullying was for me life changing - it left me suicidal and broken. Anyway it is done now and I need to see if I can rebuild my life.
I have a final disciplinary meeting coming up ( I could potentially loose my job) and have been nervous about a lot of things including him being my rep. I emailed the Trade Union to see if I might be able to be supported by someone else but they said no - that I should stick with him. They have said I could formally complain to the secretary general but I am unsure what to do. I think they are all pretty close and won’t look favourably on a complaint but I am scared that if I stick with him I may regret it. What would you do?