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Crap day today

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Partey · 07/01/2022 16:44

I started a new job around 8 weeks ago. It’s sensitive and complex and time pressured. There can be ambiguous outcomes, ie you may make a different decision to me based on the same information. This is then reviewed.

At every single review my manager disagrees, I could ask him about the same case an hour later and he’s completely contradict himself. Sometimes we have reflective discussions,
He interrupts and makes decisions based on half a sentence. If I recommend black, he recommends white.

It came to a head today and my work has been torn to shreds, most of it based on paperwork rather than quality of practical work. I raised the fact that advice is contradictory most days, that if I say X should happen he says No, Y should.

He denied it basically. A while I back I was told to put more detail in certain areas, today I was told it’s too lengthy and I should be more succinct.

There’s a higher manager. But I’m new and I doubt I’d get far in challenging it.

I love the job, love the work etc. I’ll never get it right because I can’t do right for doing wrong.

Aaaarrrggh, just needed a rant basically

OP posts:
Hunderland · 07/01/2022 22:37
  1. Following every conversation / decision email him 'further to our meeting we agreed / you decided...' Every. Single. Time.
  2. Join a union
alisonsattic · 08/01/2022 20:42

Document every discussion. Follow up everything in writing

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