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Girl at work acts if I don’t exist and is rude

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Lolabray · 07/10/2021 18:00

I am finding things hard in my workplace. I’m generally a friendly conversational person who gets on well with others.

However there is (always 1) one girl who acts as if I am indifferent. When I try to engage in conversation or in group discussion there is always an argument back like her opinion is always right.

She also flits between people at work cuddling Certain colleagues (me never one) which I find odd

I am in a lower paid different role but wonder if she is ‘choosing’ to ignore me.. people have commented on her being rude in meetings & to me so she is aware of her behaviour.

If she tries to goad me I try not to react but sometimes it is hard if my work is being criticised.

I’m really not sure where to go with this person. I’ve decided non engagement or little engagement is the best option.

I feel strange in the workplace and think about this outside of work when I have actually got better things to think about.

I’m unsure why a person would behave in such a way but see this as a facade. I wondered if anyone has any tips please ?

OP posts:
leonaaaa · 07/10/2021 20:24

Jealousy.
Have you spoke to a higher team member lovely? dont even show any sign of emotion towards her at all! easier said then done but keep smiling will annoy her 🙂
cannot stand people like this at all x

GoWalkabout · 07/10/2021 20:27

She's insecure, don't let it rub off on you. Be professional and pleasant towards her, it will make her look foolish to others.

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