Does anyone manage to ask for leave without feeling as if you're asking for a really big favour? If so please share your secret!

[OrmIrian]

Because I can't! Even though it's my leave entitlement. Even though I try me best not to ask at difficult times and fit in with other people, sometimes there isn't any choice. Like this term - I'm already working half days from home because of DS#2 starting reception afternoons only (for 11 weeks!! But that was another thread). And now I've got to cover 4 inset days (one of which is DS#1's open day at his (hopefully) new school. So all in all I feel very uncomfortable about it atm.

I always feel like I should go to into my boss' office wagging my tail like a dog in hope of a walk . I hate it! I want to be assertive and demand my rights but I never feel I can. Any tips.

That sound good clarkkent - but presumably that also makes it easier for your boss to say 'no sod off!'

Perhaps it is a relaxed environment here - she has never yet said no.

She sounds lovely. My boss (though a nice enough chap) is a workaholic who almost never takes time off and can make you feel guilty as soon as you walk in his office.