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Should I let my heart or head rule

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gingerninja · 02/07/2007 13:29

I've been offered a new job. The commute is shorter and cheaper. Pay is slightly better and it will be a good career move however I have serious nagging doubt and I can't put my finger on it. I don't know if it's because I'm just dreading the return (I'm due to finish maternity in a few weeks) or if it's something more ominous. Should I return to my comfy slippers job or put on the hgh heels for a new career. Please mystic megs, help!!!

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littlelapin · 02/07/2007 13:30

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justaphase · 02/07/2007 13:33

It is natural to fear change.

Thing is... your old job has probably changed too. As long as the new job is not too demanding I think it is a good time to change.

Gig · 02/07/2007 13:37

You need to be really honest with yourself- what is it that worries you? You DO know- just listen to your inner voice!
Would it help to evaluate what is most important to you in a job? Money, status, convenience, career prosepcts, travel, etc etc.
Don't base your decision on how you'll feel in 6 months- look ahead to a year or 5 years and ask what you want to see yourself doing.

gingerninja · 02/07/2007 15:33

ahh thanks for your responses. I don't feel too concerned about going back to my old job but it is boring and I'd be looking for a new challenge soon anyway. This job has almost been handed to me on a plate which is why I'm probably not more enthusiastic. I haven't had to fight for it. It'd be a great career move and would lead to other stuff and in the direction I'd like to go. I think part of me feels I need to morn my old (current) job and leaving the people.
Thanks for your comments

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littlelapin · 02/07/2007 20:44

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UCM · 02/07/2007 20:45

Sorry for Hijack, LL please check your email.

chocolatekimmy · 04/07/2007 10:59

Look at the facts - any only the facts. There must be something that is causing this doubt.

gingerninja · 04/07/2007 19:31

Thanks Kimmy. I think it's the prospect of actually going back to work although obviously so many changes all at the same time are unsettling.

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