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Handed Notice In and All Hell Broke Loose...

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MyNameDefinatelyIsntJanet · 05/07/2018 09:05

I handed my notice in at work yesterday, it did not go the way I was expecting and I need to know where I stand legally.

For context, it's a fairly senior position, a big jump up the ladder for me and it took them 6 months to find someone to hire into my role before they got me. I've only been in the role 6 months. Over those 6 months, it's become abundantly clear that I'm not the right person for this particular role. They need someone with strategic skills and I'm a technician. I'm bloody good at my job and an industry expert, but they don't need that skill, they need someone who can do the big picture stuff with clients and that's not me. I've stopped enjoying the job and I do feel that it was mis-sold to me at the interview stage, but I'm not bitter about that. I tried it, it didn't work out.

I gave these reasons when I handed in my notice but my line manager was apoplectic with rage. She called me a liar and accused me of using her/ the company as a leg up and that this had been my intention all along (I'm going to an equally senior role in a much bigger specialist agency). This is completely untrue. The job I'm going to is a technical role and much more in line with my skill set but at the same level as now iyswim.

She walked out of the room and slammed the door behind her and told me to leave the office immediately. So I did and have had no contact since.

WTF do I do now? I haven't gone in to the office today but I've been responding to client emails as usual this morning as there's stuff I need to get done.

I've since realised I was never asked to return my signed contract when I was hired and found it in my collection of papers this morning. I have signed it, but they don't have a copy.

I REALLY don't want to go back to the office after yesterday, but I have a 6 month notice period so not having to serve this would be great. I'm not sure where I stand legally. I'm prepared to hitch up my big girl pants and go back in but I'm not sure if they're going to want that so my questions are:

Legally, do they have to pay me for my 6 month notice period even though they've asked me to leave the office (they haven't asked me to leave my position yet).

As they don't have evidence of my signed contract, do I have to serve out my 6 months?

I want to hand over things properly and make sure they've got a plan for my leaving, but should I even care about this after yesterday? I don't want to leave my team in the lurch Sad

Also, the new company is not a competitor of any kind with my current one.

Help?

OP posts:
EstherMumsnet · 05/07/2018 14:22

Blush I thought I was using my non work account (and indeed am not working today - just browsing as a muggle) so asked to delete it so no one associates my entirely questionable career advice with the good folk at MN. Proof that we are human too?

ForTheLoveOfCakes · 05/07/2018 14:22

Good luck OP!

Mummyoflittledragon · 05/07/2018 14:23

I think Esther made a mistake or maybe her internet access has been immediately revoked like VRex above.

Coloursthatweremyjoy · 05/07/2018 14:23

Not saying I wouldn't do it Esther. 😏

glintandglide · 05/07/2018 14:24

Distancecall- as above because she’s entitled to 6 months notice and they may put her on gardening leave or pay it as PILON (of course they could also demand she works it)

She has only recently mentioned starting earlier with new employer but why would she need to if she can get PILON? And who in their right mind would reject it and say don’t worry, just pay me a week instead?!

GraffitiArtistTV · 05/07/2018 14:24

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Mummyoflittledragon · 05/07/2018 14:24

Oh reinstated Esther

jumblefun2 · 05/07/2018 14:25

Esther Flowers

Grin tho

Iamagreyhoundhearmeroar · 05/07/2018 14:26

I think if Esther deleted her own post you’re being a bit overbearing to repost it, Graffiti? Why did you feel the need to do that?

M3lon · 05/07/2018 14:27

:) esther

I'm afraid you won't be making the top 10 name change fails with that effort though...

I'm thinking fondly back to the time a really well known poster attempted to name change for a really personal nether region related post...and failed....

laptopdisaster · 05/07/2018 14:27

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M3lon · 05/07/2018 14:28

The OPs going to return to update and by like WTF?

ThunderInMyHeart · 05/07/2018 14:28

I feel all weird...like I've just seen Superman and Clarke Kent in the same room or something perverse...

We know Esther's personal account username...I don't want to be part of this secret club!

4yearsnosleep · 05/07/2018 14:29

The app Just Press Record will record the meeting and convert it into a text file with a time date stamp. My old boss was evil when I resigned so you have my sympathy

TalkinPeace · 05/07/2018 14:31

Somebody up thread said to record a meeting on a phone.
Somebody else said that was a bad idea.

Could somebody clarify for me ?

Just that I'm aware of a situation in a company where there are no unions, other employees are too scared to attend and the HR team are the problem !

Pinkgeorge · 05/07/2018 14:32

Good luck

SleepWarrior · 05/07/2018 14:33

Hopefully the threatening tone of the emails will just be overzealous new HR person, and the meeting will actually be reasonable.

I'd feel pretty bad about the probation business though, and would offer the probation resignation terms, especially as that had been what I was initially aiming for. Wouldn't want to leave them staffless AND down 6 months gardening leave pay. I am a pushover though so that's perhaps not good advice!

chickydoo · 05/07/2018 14:33

Good luck op

Shumpalumpa · 05/07/2018 14:33

Didn't know MNHQ were allowed to post as plebs Grin

Easily done Esther!

Does anyone know if employers can ever ask your GP for your medical records?

ProfessorMoody · 05/07/2018 14:34

Good luck, OP 🍀

Westiegirl3 · 05/07/2018 14:34

Your well away from this company, hope the meeting goes well

laptopdisaster · 05/07/2018 14:34

Does anyone know if employers can ever ask your GP for your medical records?

only with your consent

DrMantisToboggan · 05/07/2018 14:35

Does anyone know if employers can ever ask your GP for your medical records?

No they can’t. They can request you to attend an occupational health assessment though.

SleepWarrior · 05/07/2018 14:35

Do you not need to inform someone that you are recording them? So a secret recording would be useful for nothing. Could be wrong though.

CraftyNestUK · 05/07/2018 14:36

Looking forward to an update. Wondering how long the meeting will last.

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