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Handed Notice In and All Hell Broke Loose...

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MyNameDefinatelyIsntJanet · 05/07/2018 09:05

I handed my notice in at work yesterday, it did not go the way I was expecting and I need to know where I stand legally.

For context, it's a fairly senior position, a big jump up the ladder for me and it took them 6 months to find someone to hire into my role before they got me. I've only been in the role 6 months. Over those 6 months, it's become abundantly clear that I'm not the right person for this particular role. They need someone with strategic skills and I'm a technician. I'm bloody good at my job and an industry expert, but they don't need that skill, they need someone who can do the big picture stuff with clients and that's not me. I've stopped enjoying the job and I do feel that it was mis-sold to me at the interview stage, but I'm not bitter about that. I tried it, it didn't work out.

I gave these reasons when I handed in my notice but my line manager was apoplectic with rage. She called me a liar and accused me of using her/ the company as a leg up and that this had been my intention all along (I'm going to an equally senior role in a much bigger specialist agency). This is completely untrue. The job I'm going to is a technical role and much more in line with my skill set but at the same level as now iyswim.

She walked out of the room and slammed the door behind her and told me to leave the office immediately. So I did and have had no contact since.

WTF do I do now? I haven't gone in to the office today but I've been responding to client emails as usual this morning as there's stuff I need to get done.

I've since realised I was never asked to return my signed contract when I was hired and found it in my collection of papers this morning. I have signed it, but they don't have a copy.

I REALLY don't want to go back to the office after yesterday, but I have a 6 month notice period so not having to serve this would be great. I'm not sure where I stand legally. I'm prepared to hitch up my big girl pants and go back in but I'm not sure if they're going to want that so my questions are:

Legally, do they have to pay me for my 6 month notice period even though they've asked me to leave the office (they haven't asked me to leave my position yet).

As they don't have evidence of my signed contract, do I have to serve out my 6 months?

I want to hand over things properly and make sure they've got a plan for my leaving, but should I even care about this after yesterday? I don't want to leave my team in the lurch Sad

Also, the new company is not a competitor of any kind with my current one.

Help?

OP posts:
Churrolicious · 05/07/2018 14:08

Good luck OP!

toastedbeagle · 05/07/2018 14:08

Hope meeting goes well

DistanceCall · 05/07/2018 14:09

glintandglide

The OP is leaving the company by her own decision three days after the probation period. Perhaps the company will ask her to stay on for the next six months (though I doubt it). And the OP has stated that her preference would be to start working earlier for the other company.

So why on earth would she be entitled to six months' salary from her current company if she is not dismissed?

Coloursthatweremyjoy · 05/07/2018 14:09

Ah, small company with limited HR experience? Been there.

I went for a promotion. I didn't get it, never mind. Then one of the managers comes in a few days later and starts ranting at me about xyz not being done a certain way...why arent we doing abc?.. What am I going to do about It?...um, that would be the responsibility of the person you did promote? Finance isn't my role?

It turns out she thought I would do the new role while someone else got the title and pay (her mate)...yeah right.

She was genuinely flabbergasted when I handed in my notice because I got a better role elsewhere.

It amazes me how some people get to senior management it really does.

DistanceCall · 05/07/2018 14:10

Oh, and I hope the meeting goes well, OP, and you find all the information you need to make the best decision.

EstherMumsnet · 05/07/2018 14:11

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Coloursthatweremyjoy · 05/07/2018 14:15

Oh and said crappy company suddenly and inexplicably had a myriad issues with my work. Which they had failed to document and were horrified to discover had given me excellent appraisals and scores for previously.

Numptys.

jumblefun2 · 05/07/2018 14:15

Esther MNHQ had a post deleted LOL wtf?

M3lon · 05/07/2018 14:16

erm...is every okay esthermumsnet?

jumblefun2 · 05/07/2018 14:16

Did anyone see what she posted to get herself deleted????

kissthealderman · 05/07/2018 14:17

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

jumblefun2 · 05/07/2018 14:17

Maybe EstherMN is Janet and the role was at MNTowers?? Grin

Coloursthatweremyjoy · 05/07/2018 14:18

Grin slightly questionable HR advice...

jumblefun2 · 05/07/2018 14:18

OK that name has definitely changed on that post. What the fuck?

blueangel1 · 05/07/2018 14:19

Wow. Are they going to sack you for resigning?

Former union rep here (20 years of it for my sins). Do take someone with you, and do take notes, otherwise it's their word against yours.

If you had previously worked for the company for 2 years, including the time you've been doing the new job, then if they summarily dismiss you for resigning, then you can file a claim for unfair dismissal.

If they offer you early severance, take it.
If they put you on gardening leave, take it. I know it's a complete pain in the arse, but there is a possibility that they could do it to be spiteful and stop you starting your new job early. If they do, then view it as an advantage and use the time for something constructive.

If they want you to leave immediately, make sure you agree a paid notice period with them (which should be 6 months, but if you agree to a shorter period, that's your choice if you want to be free of them).

By the way, only giving you a day's notice of the meeting is a bit shit; in most unionised places it should be at least 5 working days, but that's by the by.

Drop me a DM if I can help out any more about process; I can't give you legal advice, but I can maybe explain how the systems work in this sort of situation.

ba1 x

ClownStar · 05/07/2018 14:19

They sound nuttier than squirrel poo. Hope it goes well!

TatianaLarina · 05/07/2018 14:19

I think Esther just pressed the wrong button.

ThunderInMyHeart · 05/07/2018 14:19

DistanceCall - she'd be entitled to 6 months pay due to a PILON ('payment in lieu of notice') clause...obviously, this playing out perfectly in practice depends on the OP maintaining a facade that she wants to carry on working there, but the company wanting her out.

DrMantisToboggan · 05/07/2018 14:19

Where did EstherMumsnet’s post go - and why did the name change on it?? Confused

Coloursthatweremyjoy · 05/07/2018 14:20

I'm guessing Esther was deleted by someone else at MNHQ who thought. "Bloody he'll Esther, you can't advise that".

DrMantisToboggan · 05/07/2018 14:20

Wait now it’s back!

Attic14 · 05/07/2018 14:20

Esther needs her lunch break i think thats all! :)

jumblefun2 · 05/07/2018 14:20

This is very very weird.

Cadencia · 05/07/2018 14:21

Good luck OP

Mumsnut · 05/07/2018 14:21

Coo

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