Hi, my partner of 2 years has decided he can't move in with myself and my 3 children (that he gets on great with) after all because he couldn't handle that many people, he's been used to living by himself (albeit with his dad) he grew up quite a solitary person so struggles socially. Even tho the past 6/8 months we've talked about getting a bigger home together, having a baby together completing our family, he's just u turned saying 'I want all of that, but in reality I'm not the type of person that can handle it'. He needs his own space I get that as he suffers with anxiety & depression, so he'd rather we stay together but live apart! I'm so confused, I don't want to loose him!