Hi everyone! I'm new to this chat board. I am 28 y.o. and I have a 1-year-old Ds. I'm really desperate for some advice as I'm not sure when to go back to work. I worked for 1 year before I was pregnant. As my profession was based on short contract, I gave up my new 1-year job contract when I was pregnant as I have a very bad morning sickness. Now that I have my Ds, I decided not to get back to my old profession as it requires long hours and shifts and weekends too (flexible working is hard to get, almost impossible). However, I am now in dilemma about when to look for a new job. If I left it too long before applying for one, I would be highly likely to get a job that is not as well paid as if I apply now. But I really love my Ds and the thought of leaving him with somebody else now really hurts . DH's earning is ok, just enough but there's not much spare cash or even none at all at the end of the month. I would appreciate any advice from all of you. Please help.....Thanks.