I like my job but the nature of it is difficult for family life, I'm at my busiest during school holidays and if I paid for all childcare out of my wage I'd be left with about £60 a month. I've got ds1 at school and ds2 at a childminder 4 days per week. I've been considering leaving work to be a sahm until ds2 goes to school but I just feel so nervous about taking the plunge. I've never not worked since I was 15 (considerably older than that now) and the lack of financial independence makes me worry. I'd probably get an evening supermarket job or something so we're not paying out for childcare but there are too many variables! Help me decide/ list the pros and cons please!