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Is this bullying?

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AmandaMckinelly · 12/06/2016 11:31

Earlier this week I purchased a phone from a girl in work it was her old phone upon setting it up I found some messages between the girl and another colleague of mine they was both saying rude things about me calling me a "sket" 😅 And also commenting on my parenting skills saying things like "I never have my child she is always with my parents calling me a bad mother (I am a 23 year old woman and work full time so my mother looks after my son whilst I work and whilst I go gym) they was speaking in a rude manner about my son referring to him at does she ever have that kid or where's her kid when she's here there and everywhere I was quite shocked as both the girls are very polite to my face the next day in work I calmly confronted them to which they both said they are not sorry for what they have said about me and was not remorseful one bit later that day I found on the phone that they had been taking pictures of me in secret in work and sending them to each other laughing at them at my expense I was also told by another member of staff one of the girls had taken pictures of my child of my social media and was insulting him in messages I am really concerned about this as we work in a kids play area . My question is is this bullying? I feel very anxious in work all the time now and is it worth putting a complaint in? What do you think would come out of it if I complain?
Thanks in advance x

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HermioneWeasley · 12/06/2016 11:35

That behaviour is completely unacceptable and unprofessional. You should definitely complain.

DoreenLethal · 12/06/2016 11:37

Yes I would definitely put numerous complaints in. I would insist on a safeguarding report to investigate them taking pictures of your child and posting them on social media as well.

With any luck you could get both sacked.

Sallycinnamum · 12/06/2016 11:40

OP take this to the very top. Absolutely outrageous behaviour. I hope the two f them get their marching orders.

MissElizaBennettsBookmark · 12/06/2016 11:42

You definitely need to report this OP.

Outrageous behaviour. They should be sacked.

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