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I work in HR so don't know what to do for advice?

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Shivz12345 · 27/09/2015 19:48

On here for advice as I can't go to my HR department because I work in the HR department Angry

So on Friday a colleague had me near to tears, came marching round to my desk and accused me of deliberately misplacing paper which has resulted in 33 people needing manual payment. Yes I admit I was the person that check and signed of the paperwork meaning I was the last person to actually sign the peice of paper but I am 100% sure I put it in the processing tray. To which I got called a silly cow and stormed away from. I know I put it in the processing tray as I check paperwork in batches of 100 not 33 so where the other 67? Oh wait they have been processed.

So missing a lot of nasty comments made when I stuck up for myself I go back to my desk and hear her tell the whole department (speaking loud enough for the whole floor of several departments to hear) how I can't do my job and shouldn't be employed.

The thing is I was on annual leave the week that payroll deadline was so even if I had (which I didnt) misplaced the paperwork and put them back in the tray to be check the person in checking would have seen my mistake to which I asked and she said it wasn't even in the checking tray (was when the mouthy one came to me about it).

I'm so p offed because two team leaders sit at my table so definately heard everything I did and done nothing. At the end of the day my team leader said she wanted supervision (one to one meeting) first thing tomorrow after I said I wasn't putting up with ...... Attitude and will be taken it further.

Could go on and on but it's long enough.

No need to write anything I just needing it off my chest as I know I will be the one coping the blame tomorrow grrrrrrrr!

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oddsocks300 · 12/10/2015 16:13

Seen that no one has replied to this, just wanted to check you're okay and ask you how your supervision went? :)

Liberated71 · 12/10/2015 16:29

Regardless of what actually happened here to be treated so disrespectful in the workplace is completely unacceptable. You would be quite justified in making a complaint about your colleague's behaviour - but that might not go down well and could label you as a snitch. Maybe write them a letter calmly explaining how their manner affected you. Spell out the sequence of events from your perspective that show you as not being to blame. Ideally use this as a script to have a conversation with your colleague but send it if face to face feels unmanageable. Most of all - keep a copy and keep a journal of any untoward episodes just in case this becomes a pattern. Join a union if you're not in one already and if you are, seek their support. We all deserve to be treated with dignity at work. Good luck Thanks

HermioneWeasley · 12/10/2015 19:11

Is this person your manager? If not, then complain to your manager about how you were spoken to

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