work tomorrow

[Fluffybear86]

So its almost midnight and im crying about work tomorrow with my fiancee sleeping next to me

Ive been here alot. Cant cope with job came back to work a month ago after six weeks off and feeling hopeless and trapped again

Sorry to hear that you are still suffering.

Have the band 6's been drafted in yet to help you out? Are occupational health helping?

she is starting this week but due to her leaving the band 6 staff short we have been asked to pivk both band 6 and band 8a work up now. I have spoken to the union but they dont care. I am going to see occupational health today. I am so unbelievably close to handing my notice in but i cant cope without a wage and standing in the dole queue isnt really what i want

Im sitting here thinking what the hell! I have just sold a house so have 7 grand in the bank and my fiance works earning around ?2300 a month. Only issues is he cannot get a mortgage because his lovely ex did not pay the mortgage after he moved out so put them in bad credit hence everything is in my name. Do i just hand notice in? 8 weeks to find another job? even if i dont in 8 weeks if i at least have an offer of a job to go to?

I would hand my notice in if I were you. You sound like you are not coping at all. Have you looked into retraining (especially before September)? Is there anything you get with a bursary and, perhaps, a part time job to boost finances?
Or, you could look for another job in a related field?

Hi I'm getting married in September and plan is baby straight away lol. I have applied for more nursing jobs and also been talking to a friend who sells perfume and health products on the side. After kids etc I might look at part time training to be a speech and language therapy x

I have written a letter of resignation and will hand it in on Monday if i still feel the same which i imagine i will. have apllied for jobs on NHS site and will keep trying. Never been out of work before ever and so scared that will happen but i cant live like this :-(

Maternity package is good with the NHS. Could you manage a bit longer and then re-train? Some MSc courses are paid by the NHS (diagnostic radiography/radiotherapy, not sure about speech therapy).

I'm trying to stay and am going to give it the weekend think. Should I stay unhappy for a hypothetical situation ? Ie pregnancy it may not happen! I had a meeting today where my whole job has been changed again! I
On the plus side I've applied for four jobs so hopefully something will come from them x

Do they know you are applying for other jobs?

No country loving girl. I can't tell them or cry in front of my manager again I've made a right mess of this job and I can't make it worse for myself x

It really is bad working in the NHS at the moment. I have 20 years service and have never seen it so bad as what it is now, and has been for the last few years. You are not alone. I know many others who are suffering too.
I hope you get something else soon, even if it is outside of the NHS. You have to start looking after no.1

Are you full time btw?

I am full time in this role cutting hours isnt an option! Ive applied for five jobs and agencies so hoping something comes up x

What about trying to fall pregnant right now?

Lol sky I'm getting married in September so don't really want to be pregnant before then x