for decades had problems with bras. Been properly fitted at R&B and had 3 made to measure; first one great subsequent 2 not so. I've modified them and tried to make them. I am now verging on phobic. I'm 36h so not wearing not an option. Get very anxious - can't work out if anxiety causing pain and discomfort or discomfort/pain causing anxiety. Now at the end of my tether. Reassurance/advice please
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