I've recently become a single parent and have decided I need to return to full-time work (I work 2 days at the moment) so that I can be as financially independent as possible. To that end I start a new job in October that means a move out of London to Cambridge. Ds (aged 2) goes to nursery at the moment but I think since I'll be on my own and working full-time I'll need the flexibility of a daily nanny (no need to get him out of the house in the morning, less time off for sickness etc). BUT, I've always been very wary of employing a nanny, due to hearing horror stories of neglect, and from seeing some very disinterested nannies at 1 o clock clubs. I suspect I may be an anxious employer!
So, my questions are these: how have those of you with full-time nannies found the experience and do you have any tips for finding the right person? Has anyone had to make this transition (from part-time to full-time work, nursery to nanny) or anything like it? It's going to be a hard time for both of us I think. On a more practical note, can anyone recommend an agency in Cambridge?
Many, many thanks in advance for all info.