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Going rate for non-registered childminder

29 replies

Haily111 · 06/09/2006 21:39

Hello all, i will be returning back to work January part time, three days a week. A friend of mine has offered to take my littlen in whilst i am at work. By my own choice i would like my dd to have one to one for the first couple of years. The 'childminder' isn't registered, but she has had three children of her own, worked in midwifery and is a nurse, and the most relevant aspect is i trust her completely.

My question is how much i should offer to pay hourly, bearing in mind she isn't registered, but will look after dd three full days (08-18), i will provide food, and my dd will only be seven months when she first starts going.

I have no clue with this so any helping comments will be very welcome :-)

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Olihan · 06/09/2006 21:47

Just be aware that it is illegal to pay anyone money to look after your child if they are not registered with OFSTED. Even payment in the form of gifts/holidays etc is illegal so your friend will need to think carefully about whether she really wants to do it. Obviously she'd have to be caught and it proven but there is a hefty fine involved.

CarlyP · 06/09/2006 21:49

how would she get caught though?.....

if she is not claiming benefits etc, but working then thats unfair, but if shes a mate, id pay her.

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Haily111 · 06/09/2006 21:52

Oh god really???? I didn't realise that :-( They don't make it easy nowadays do they!!

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Twiglett · 06/09/2006 21:53

its easy to register though .. and she'll get a grant .. she'll have to do a 4 day course and have a CRB and home check ..

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Haily111 · 06/09/2006 21:55

Thanks for that Twiglett.

Can i just ask then if it is illegal for grandparents to look after the children as well?

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nappyaddict · 06/09/2006 22:15

i pay my cm £2 an hour. is it really illegal? sometimes my cousin looks after my ds and cos she has to come and collect him (i don't drive) i pay her for petrol and a little bit extra as well cos i don't like her to do it for free. and what about babysitters? they aren't with ofsted and you pay them don't you?

nappyaddict · 06/09/2006 22:18

btw she charges £18 for the full day. how many hours would your dd be there during the day?

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Haily111 · 06/09/2006 22:25

She would be there from eight in the morning til 6 in the evening, but only three days a week. Long i know :-(

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Xena · 06/09/2006 22:29

Not not illegal for any relation to look after your child for payment without being registered, although they still have to declare self employed earnings to the IR. Lots of grandparents etc have registered so that childcare tax credits can be claimed

Bamzooki · 06/09/2006 22:35

It is only illegal to 'mind' a child for payment if it is more than a set no of hours, tho for the life of me I can't remember how much. I'm pretty sure 3 full days a week would be too much however. If your friend were to register as a childminder she would be letting herself in for a stack of routine paperwork to maintain her registration, but you would have benefit of her being insured etc, as well as no prospect of being 'found out'!
I pay mine £2.50p/h (for part time), though it will be rising to £2.75 p/h next term, and she is only bringing herself into line with the lowest chargers in the area. But i would pay her much more if she asked - she has had dd and now ds, the kids love her and I trust her completely!

Xena · 06/09/2006 22:40

Its 2hrs IIRC (the max time for unreg)

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Haily111 · 06/09/2006 22:45

Sorry didn't realise how complicated this can get!!!

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edam · 06/09/2006 22:49

Agree that your friend will have to register but it is very easy to do. My baby sister did it not long ago in order to look after a friend's child and I was surprised how simple it is.

anniebear · 07/09/2006 11:15

I don't see any real reason to pay her less cause she isn't registered??

Someone asked how would she be found out?.... Other childminders could report her. I was a registered childminder and there was a lady who came into the toddler group with 3 children and she wasn't registered. It used to annoy some very much. And I am sure some of them wanted to report her. So you never know

I think you can look after a child for 2 hours without being registered

It's insurance reasons also. When I was registered I had insurance. Accidents can easily happen. If I were her I wouldn't want to look after child illegly. Could be too much trouble for her.

Also even though you are friends, with a registered childminder you would have a contract. And have certain things down on paper.

MegaLegs · 07/09/2006 11:19

If you register does that mean you will be inspected. What are the regulations. will I have to make loads of changes to the house, garden etc..I have been asked to help a friend out one afternoon a week and she has offered to pay.

anniebear · 07/09/2006 11:27

yes, you will have inspectons

You may get told to make certain changes, if you have a young child yoursefl you will have some of the safety things anyway

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Haily111 · 07/09/2006 19:44

Ok i shall look into it, does anyone know where i need to go for this?

I don't want to pay her less i just wanted to know what the going rate is as i am totally new to this

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Bamzooki · 10/09/2006 12:55

I think you contact the council for a registration pack and info for your area.

anniebear · 11/09/2006 20:00

I think the rate of pay varies greatly

Is there a childminders section on here If so maybe ask on there?

Katymac · 11/09/2006 20:14

Ok

If you are looking after children in your own home for more than 2 hrs a day you need to be registered.

If you baby sit in the childs house you don't

You need to be registered for lots of reasons

  1. It's illegal not to be
  2. Technically (tho' unlikely) if social services found out that you were using unregistered childcare - they could consider it neglect (as I said unlikely) Both parent & carer could be prosecuted.
  3. Anyone looking after your child should be first aid trained (not a problem in this case)
  4. Insurance is very important - car ins, household ins, Public liabilty Ins (if your buggy is stolen from her house is it covered - if you child is in a car accident in her car and needs expensive surgery - who pays - not her car ins as it was not declared for work...sorry to be blunt)
  5. Regulation - everything needs to be regulated in some way - childcare is very invisible OFSTED inspects to ensure minimum standards - some minders I have met I wouldn't leave an adlt in their house let alons a small child - & they were refistered.
  6. Safety - childminders have a crb check - so do all their household - you would be fine with your friend but if you go to an unregistered C/Mer how do you know that the people who live there or who visit are safe?

This is a general rant about unregistered care - it is for information - I am not having a go at Haily...honest & I am not referring to this particular arrangement

nappyaddict · 11/09/2006 21:24

what about if someone looks after your child in their house for more than 2 hours but they aren't paid?

Katymac · 11/09/2006 21:29

If you aren't paid at all (ie voucher/trading/other things?) then you are a mug

Sorry the legal aspect won't could but the other issues are valid (first aid/insurance etc)

julienetmum · 11/09/2006 21:30

If they are truly not paid then I don't think it is against the law. However paid includes gifts and reciprocal favours so even if you just gave them a box of chocolates or bottle of wine every so often it classes as a payment.

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Haily111 · 11/09/2006 22:04

Thanks Katymac. As i said at the start of the thread i had no clue that it was against the law. Thank god for mumsnet :-)

I shall try and get a registration pack from my council. Thanks again everyone x x x

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dartlady · 18/09/2006 10:42

hi can my siser be my childminder for my 2 year old son if she not registed

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