DH (currently unemployed) was offered a job last week working with a financial company. He was due to start next week, but heard today that the offer has been withdrawn because the security check threw up the fact that he was done for ABH years ago.
We've been married 20+ years, and the crime was several years before we met, while he was a hotheaded youth, and not long after he'd left the Royal Marines after serving in the Falklands war (so a bit fucked up mentally).
This record has never prevented DH from getting a job before, and he's currently a doting father and husband who hasn't hurt a fly in all the years we've been together.
My question is - will this come up again? Are people not allowed to change? Doesn't the system not recognise that a one off incident, albeit a serious one, on an otherwise unblemished 50 year olds record, does not mean that he currently poses any risk? How does he redeem himself?