I have been trying to get an accountant since I posted here and finally found one. I think it is a small office with few accountants. It is not very local but accessible. My initial consultation is on Monday.
I tried so many accountants, even not explaining what the problem is, they don't return calls or emails which is frustrating.
The one I am hopefully going to work with, asked what I am looking for and I briefly explained, basically I said I committed errors in my last returns and wanted to correct it. They said it is fine and they can help.
If I understand correctly, any accountant I work with will basically report me? Not the Money Laundering Officers only?
I made a mistake on my OP. I have been self employed since 2011 so I have done two S.A to date. So it is not 3 years of 'fiddling', only two as I intend to do everything correctly next time.
I have a very small business, I am a CM and at my busiest times had only 3 children on the roll and they were part time. At my busiest time I had around £600 per week but not every week. Some weeks I would have less than £150 coming in. I offer a very flexible and affordable service (don't charge for child's holidays, don't charge for holding child's place etc) so the income was very variable.
I just got muddled up with my records and kept few receipts. I always procrastinated with the financial paperwork and it was time to do my returns I just calculated amounts that I thought were roughly right without adjusting the discounts I should make with my rent, electricity, water, food, costs with equipment, wear and tear, travel, activities etc.
I know I should have contacted an accountant from the start when I suspected I wasn't going to cope with the financial paperwork.
It is a shame if they report me because I want to do it voluntarily. However if there isn't another way, be it.
I don't have a lavish lifestyle, I rent a flat in a rough council state, my daughter goes to a school which is avoided because it is a poor area.
We don't have a car, we don't wear designer brands.
I made a mistake and want to pay for it.
Hope I can be treated a little bit better than the people who make mistakes but don't care.
Also I know at least one accountant out there who actually help her clients to commit fraud. Obviously I never contacted them.