I've been in the same job for 13 years, part-time.
My partner lives in a different city, and we're thinking of ttc.
If I left my current job to find something closer to DP then I guess I'd lose part of my entitlement to maternity pay, is that right?
So would we be better off, at least while we begin trying, with me staying in the job I have length of service in, at least until I get pregnant and start maternity leave?
Would I then absolutely have to return to work in the same job after maternity leave? That would obviously be difficult once I'd spent a year in a different city with my new family, but potentially not impossible for a short time for various reasons.
Is there a certain amount of time you have to stay in your old job again for it to "count" as leave rather than as you having left? And is it ok to basically go back for that amount of time while blatantly planning to resign straight after minimum time, or would I have to really convince my employers that I was planning to go back and stay indefinitely?
What happens if you just leave a job to have a baby?
DP has other kids in the other city so him coming here isn't a long-term option.