My daughter is 10 months old and myself and her are currently living with my father, im 23 and i had never been out of employment until i had her, when she is 12 months i am looking to start back work.... I have been looking at part time employment but it doesn't reach what i am currently getting on benefits, so my thinking is that i would just dive into the deep end and seek full time employment, the reason being is because i want my own house, i want whats best for my daughter and to give her everything she deserves in life, but am i being selfish to start full time when she is so young... I already have a place for her in a nursery and because my auntie is the manager she can start at anytime. Am i being selfish? Help mumsnet!