I have returned to work after mat leave to find that the girl I work with who I am good friends with has decided to spend much of her day on facebook or texting new boyfriend on the front desk. I am sleepdeprived and have no self esteem at the moment and need to know how to tell her to stop. I know it sounds simple but there is only 2 of us in a very small company. if I tell her she will ignore me for days .it will change our normally good working relationship.she has just left her husband and is hooked up with a smelly loser and has also decided not to shower anymore and get those big holes in her ears which is fine but not suitable for work.what do I do?