I really need some advice on this.
I just got a second part-time job. This bumps up my hours to a point where I'd be eligible for some help with childcare costs. Not a lot of help, because of my husband's salary, but a bit.
My daughter already goes to nursery for three days a week, which obviously costs us a significant amount.
Here's the rub: neither of my jobs takes place when she's at nursery. She's in for various reasons: so I can study, so I can provide sickness/holiday cover on an ad hoc basis, so I don't go mad caring for children all day.
Would it be morally wrong therefore to start receiving a government contribution towards my childcare costs?
I don't seem to be able to think about this clearly, so would be very grateful for any comments.
Thanks in advance.