i have started as a manager in a newly created position. there is a really unusual power dynamic. one member of staff is best friends with my manager. neither are professional about it, it is clear my decisions and actions are discussed. this member of staff was mentioned at my supervision meeting like this " i am happy with how you are fitting in and with your work, and Sandra is happy too" no mention of other staff. i thought it odd.
its a small small organisation, everyone has been here for at least 5 years and is well bedded in. It is like what you would expect a an organisation like this to be...lots of back biting and gossip.
another member of staff went for my role and didn;t get it.
finally i feel like i have to bite my tongue for a year, becuae they really aren't afraid of sacking new people, i've witnessed it.
i have been used to larger formal organisations, i have managed staff before, but just cant seem to find my 'power'
where is my fucking power ?
so i can't actually talk to anyone without making myself unemployed. perhaps i need to circumnavigate this somehow at a strategic level - introducing things .......i dunno? any ideas or suggestions?
i have always known who to suck up to, who pays my wages, but the whole dynamic of my team is off
i have implimented team meetings seperatley from the department it used to be part of - have you any suggestions please?