OK I'm in a dilemma - I'm 22 weeks but have been putting off telling boss as have been put forward for promotion this year. The promotions are agreed by the board on the 4th Nov, letters are written by the 16th Nov and handed out personally on 21st Nov. Up until that point no one except the board, and the secretary who types the letters I suppose, knows what the outcome is.
THe problem is that it is very male dominated company and if I am promoted I will be one of less than 10 women at that level (company is 2500). Much as I like my boss, at the end of the day he's a corporate man and would probably pass on the news to the top brass. I don't trust them not to take my name off the list once they find out.
Trouble is, I was in a meeting with a client today and he spotted the bump and 'outed' me! None of my colleagues were there but the news may spread, though I asked him to keep it quiet. If I miss out on this promotion I realistically don't stand another chance once on maternity leave and doing shorter hours etc when the baby arrives.
Any advice very welcome!