My dh is looking for another job. He has a few job application forms to fill in and in some of them there is a question which asks if they can contact the present employer. If dh says no to this is he less likely to get an interview?
He would rather say no as if he doesn't get the new job but they do references his present employer will know that he has been looking elsewhere and make his life a misery. But at the same time he is so desperate to leave the job that he is in he doesn't want to limit his chances of getting a new job.
any advice?