I don't want to go back... what steps to take?

[IMissSleep]

I've decided that I do not want to return back to work. DS is 6.5 months and had planned to return next month. But me and OH have had a long talk about it and we have decided that:

• I don't like where I work (retail - with lots of miserable women)

• the money will be crap, OH runs his own company so money is not an issue.

How do I go about telling them? Do I just hand my notice in like as if I was working - letter to manager and HR?

How much notice do I give?

Any advice will help

Just phone them up and tell them that you're leaving exactly like it you were still working (which you are).

Time it so that you last employed day will be the same as when your SMP runs out.

You may have to pay back any additional pay you need to check your contract/mat pay policy.

It's exactly the same as resigning normally - just hand in your notice.

Have you checked that you don't have to repay any enhanced maternity pay (or you are happy to do so)?

Also, do check your timing, as you keep accruing holiday and keep your benefits all through maternity leave, so you'd be financially better off handing in your notice one month (or however long you have to give) before the end of the year, rather than now.

I have checked and will have to pay back a small amount, they only paid me full pay once so will have to pay the difference. I get 50% off as staff discount but I'm pretty sure that will not have to be paid back. Will ring ACAS just to be sure!!

Hi - the once is probably the 90% for six weeks which is part of SMP