Ex left me when I was 25 wks pregnant with our 3rd. I'm now left raising 3 under 3.5 on my own, the youngest now being 21 wks old. I've just received my 1st maintainence payment from him via the csa. He got made redundent on fri (1.5 weeks ago-sorry can't work out the date due to baby brain). He had been displaced back in sept/oct time but thought he was going to have work for 6 months. He got the phone call and left immediatley. He's told me he's only walked away with £9k!!!
Ive spoken to a few people that have also been made redundent from the same company and they say he's talking rubbish. He has just turned 39, has 23 years continuas service and was on roughly £55k a year. ( net 4 weekly pay being £2600) some one has provided me with his companies ready reckoner: he should get 6 months pay in leiu of notice and then with his lenth of service and salary and age it looks like her will have walked away with in the region of £80k.
My question is, are the children entiltled to any of this? He has said that as soon as he is up to date with the backdated mainatainence payments then we won't get anything else from him until he gets a job, unless he signs on then well get £5 a month.
Is this right, it seems crazy that he'll have all that to live on but he won't have to provide anything for his children to live on!
Any advice please?