I am currently on 3 months maternity leave and am due to return to work in January. I was put under a lot of pressure by my employer to only take 3 months but now I really don't feel happy leaving such a young baby at a full time nursery. Can my employer refuse to allow me an extra 2 or 3 months maternity leave? Is it possible to extend your maternity leave like this once you have started? My other problem is that I work for a small company who do not employ any other parents so they are not very family friendly!! Any advise welcome!!