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Woolly hugs

Woolly Hugs is a charity established by a group of Mumsnet users. They knit / crochet handmade blankets and other items for families experiencing difficult times.

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.

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KnottyAndPistey · 14/10/2020 11:21

Norma had been a Mumsnet regular over the years across the boards, with a real zest for politics, feminism and strong opinions about Boris Johnson, as anyone at the MN 15th birthday party will tell you. Remembering THE Heckle which was epic. Love her for it. She also ran the Christmas appeal which would have been an astonishing amount of work. She cared enough for others to make it happen. Norma genuinely touched the lives of so many here on Mumsnet, ours included. Such a compassionate beautiful soul.

It was desperately shocking to hear of her death in August. She had been very ill and in the end her body couldn't cope any more. Devastating for her husband and their wonderful children, their families and friends. They will miss her terribly.

Norma really wasn't one to burden others with her worries, but was a very kind and selfless friend. So supportive of others. Generous to a fault in many ways, and very bloody entertaining. We can all learn from her.

We were so glad when her family accepted our offer of a Woolly Hug, truly there will be love in every stitch. Can you help us? We shall need donors and crafters alike, please post below with offers of help.

Norma was a passionate feminist and so we are looking a suffragette colours as our main palette, so please do check these out..

Main colours
Suffragette purple
Suffragette green
Cream but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white

Accents - so not whole squares, but use within a square
Blues
Oranges
Black
Silvers
Red, but one of these two please, Drops Merino Extra Fine 11 Red, or Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM6 ‘Ruby’ please
Yellow please Drops merino extra fine DK no 24 ‘light yellow’

We have some ideas from knowing her across the boards, but different folk knew her differently, so please let us know if you have other ideas.

The ideas we have
Anything connected to feminism and the Suffragettes
Boris Out/ Tories Out/ love for the EU themes would be great.
She loved olives, Border collies, ravens and crows!
She was passionate about the NHS.
Bali was her favourite place.
She loved Banksy, Douglas Adams and Terry Pratchett

With your love and support we’d actually like to create TWO blankets, one for her family and a second to auction for Refuge, to help raise some funds in her name. So if making, please try to make a couple of extras, especially in the Suffragette colours.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.*

Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! Previous blankets can be seen on our website

When ready for posting, it will be the Teddington address, if you would like to include a card for Norma’s family, please do, we will pass it on.

Such a stalwart for so many here on Mumsnet, time to do something for her now

We were lucky to know her.

Sending so much love Thanks

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 07:41

Yes! Yarns!

The Yarn we are Using….
Artesano Superwash Merino DK
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK
Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK
Sublime Extra Fine Merino Wool DK
Patons Merino Extrafine DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued - Rowan Cashsoft DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 07:41

@JellySlice. It’s there. Sorry. It had slid off the OP

Our normal yarns

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 08:36

Ok, if a PM from you got through yesterday, I have replied, but there were only 5. So will be messaging off here now. It seems to be working at the mo

Did anyone get a reply just now?

Gin
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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 08:38

@BlueEyeshadow

Will have a look at wool and try my best, although kittens in the house will make crochet interesting!
Kittens!!

Pic please asap :)

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 08:42

Thanks to our lovely donors we do have yarn for folk, will need addresses please for

@blueskys72

@shatteredstudentmum

Will be sorting today, thank you xxx

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shatteredstudentmum · 15/10/2020 08:45

Thanks. Sent you a message through messenger last night. Hope that's ok

blueskys72 · 15/10/2020 08:47

Sent mine through fb messenger yesterday Bx

KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 08:57

Hopefully then both think we have just replied to everyone over there, do check you got a response! Thank you so much xxxx

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 09:01

We already have lovely donors to thank. Your funds have arrived safely.

Honestly your donations mean so much, we always want to be inclusive, for everyone to join in if they would like to, and some folk just wouldn't be able to afford to. Your kind donations make it possible, we really are so grateful. Thank you Thanks

Thanks @BIWI Star

Then a few who are no longer on MN but still wanted to be part of this

Thanks RK
Thanks TC
Thanks HM

Just wonderful of you all, thank you so much xxxx

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 09:03

@JamieLeeCurtains Thank you so much, you have mail xxx

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 09:08

There are two good purples in the drops

www.woolwarehouse.co.uk/yarn/drops-merino-extra-fine-royal-purple-44-50g

Thats rather perfect too

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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 09:31

@BlueEyeshadow what do you think about this for the EU flag?

I've used it to join blankets and it is lovely, just don't have any in stash

www.woolwarehouse.co.uk/yarn/patons-merino-extrafine-dk-royal-00151-50g

If its a yes, please could you remind us of your address? PMs seem to be working

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.
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KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 09:31

WHY DID I SAY THAT???????

Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused Confused

DOOMED

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SpiralArchitect · 15/10/2020 09:57

I think I've managed to PM now!
WW have already despatched the yarn I ordered yesterday, so I'm waiting impatiently for it to arrive...

KnottyAndPistey · 15/10/2020 09:58

@Peridot1 You have your crafter's info, hope the PM makes sense!

Thank you so much again xxx

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ThumbWitchesAbroad · 15/10/2020 10:01

Of course I'm in to donate some wool - happy to do so. Still shocked at the loss of NSF :(

I can do 3 balls - suffragette colours of course - just match me up with a donor and I'll get onto it. xx

BlueEyeshadow · 15/10/2020 10:11

Kittens... Also purples - are they OK? (Light isn't great but hopefully gives an idea)

PM not working. Boo!

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.
Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.
ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 15/10/2020 11:27

@KnottyAndPistey
I have that Patons blue!
may I combine it with Patons yellow 120 for "stars"? I think that'd be a perfect combo.
yay or nay?

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.
MadisonAvenue · 15/10/2020 11:51

I’ve given up trying to PM on here so I’ve sent one on Facebook

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 15/10/2020 11:59

@KnottyAndPistey

unfinished EU square, pending your approval for colour choices.
I think these shades are perfect, but I can redo with the Drops 24 - what do you think?

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.
MNPin2020 · 15/10/2020 12:12

Is this ok?

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.
Fairyfellowsmasterstroke · 15/10/2020 13:09

Unfortunately I am still unable to PM Confused

@KnottyAndPistey - can you please send me some wool so that I can do squares for both blankets.
You might have my address from before - we last emailed around 5th August regarding JoJetter's blanket.

If you no longer have my details I'm not quite sure what to do as I don't have FaceBook Sad but would love to help out.

Thank you

Fairyfellowsmasterstroke · 15/10/2020 13:11

Actually I THINK I've sucessfully sent a message Smile.

PiggyPlumPie · 15/10/2020 14:25

I couldn't pm you just now but count me in xxx

BlueEyeshadow · 15/10/2020 15:31

I still can't PM but managed to rustle up enough blue for this, which is pretty terrible, but hopefully recognisable...

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.