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Woolly hugs

Woolly Hugs is a charity established by a group of Mumsnet users. They knit / crochet handmade blankets and other items for families experiencing difficult times.

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.

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KnottyAndPistey · 14/10/2020 11:21

Norma had been a Mumsnet regular over the years across the boards, with a real zest for politics, feminism and strong opinions about Boris Johnson, as anyone at the MN 15th birthday party will tell you. Remembering THE Heckle which was epic. Love her for it. She also ran the Christmas appeal which would have been an astonishing amount of work. She cared enough for others to make it happen. Norma genuinely touched the lives of so many here on Mumsnet, ours included. Such a compassionate beautiful soul.

It was desperately shocking to hear of her death in August. She had been very ill and in the end her body couldn't cope any more. Devastating for her husband and their wonderful children, their families and friends. They will miss her terribly.

Norma really wasn't one to burden others with her worries, but was a very kind and selfless friend. So supportive of others. Generous to a fault in many ways, and very bloody entertaining. We can all learn from her.

We were so glad when her family accepted our offer of a Woolly Hug, truly there will be love in every stitch. Can you help us? We shall need donors and crafters alike, please post below with offers of help.

Norma was a passionate feminist and so we are looking a suffragette colours as our main palette, so please do check these out..

Main colours
Suffragette purple
Suffragette green
Cream but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white

Accents - so not whole squares, but use within a square
Blues
Oranges
Black
Silvers
Red, but one of these two please, Drops Merino Extra Fine 11 Red, or Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM6 ‘Ruby’ please
Yellow please Drops merino extra fine DK no 24 ‘light yellow’

We have some ideas from knowing her across the boards, but different folk knew her differently, so please let us know if you have other ideas.

The ideas we have
Anything connected to feminism and the Suffragettes
Boris Out/ Tories Out/ love for the EU themes would be great.
She loved olives, Border collies, ravens and crows!
She was passionate about the NHS.
Bali was her favourite place.
She loved Banksy, Douglas Adams and Terry Pratchett

With your love and support we’d actually like to create TWO blankets, one for her family and a second to auction for Refuge, to help raise some funds in her name. So if making, please try to make a couple of extras, especially in the Suffragette colours.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.*

Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! Previous blankets can be seen on our website

When ready for posting, it will be the Teddington address, if you would like to include a card for Norma’s family, please do, we will pass it on.

Such a stalwart for so many here on Mumsnet, time to do something for her now

We were lucky to know her.

Sending so much love Thanks

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/11/2020 21:55

@TessoftheDobermans has it arrived yet?

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TessoftheDobermans · 02/11/2020 22:10

[quote KnottyAndPistey]@TessoftheDobermans has it arrived yet?[/quote]
Not yet - fingers crossed for tomorrow Smile

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/11/2020 13:34

Dh is going to post my squares this afternoon, when he walks the dog.

SpiralArchitect · 05/11/2020 11:46

Posted these yesterday (along with some squares from DD for Candy's Hugs).

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.
Run4it2 · 05/11/2020 12:25

Posted mine yesterday - they're pretty plain compared to the fabulous ones on the chat!

TheWoollybacksWife · 05/11/2020 12:39

@SpiralArchitect I love the one on the bottom right. Do you have a link or a name for the pattern?

SpiralArchitect · 05/11/2020 15:01

@TheWoollybacksWife
Bottom right is the Mini Magic Mandala here

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 05/11/2020 17:08

That is a new one on me, @SpiralArchitect - it’s lovely - thank you for sharing.

@Run4it2 - the plainer squares are just as important as the fancy ones, IMO - if the whole blanket was fancy, it would look too busy and confused - the plainer squares help set off the fancy ones.

AthelstaneTheUnready · 05/11/2020 20:55

@SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius

That is a new one on me, *@SpiralArchitect* - it’s lovely - thank you for sharing.

@Run4it2 - the plainer squares are just as important as the fancy ones, IMO - if the whole blanket was fancy, it would look too busy and confused - the plainer squares help set off the fancy ones.

I hope so! Grin

Did my very very plain squares arrive @KnottyAndPistey?

MadisonAvenue · 06/11/2020 18:54

Athelstane SDTG is right, the plain squares are very much needed to balance out the blankets.

Mine have gone in the post this morning.

KnottyAndPistey · 07/11/2020 09:14

Morning! Grab a coffee everyone. Treasure ahoy!

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KnottyAndPistey · 07/11/2020 09:30

Absolutely beautiful treasure has been arriving safely. Both these blankets are going to be stunning. Thank you so much everyone Flowers

Flowers AH stunning 3D flowers, willows, gorgeous textures all in beautiful suffragette colours Star

Flowers @Bearfrills Traditional grannies, 3D flowers all absolutely gorgeous. Suffragette colours with a flash of yellow. Wonderful Star

Flowers KB absolutely stunning crochet in the three suffragette colours. Themes on traditional grannies, willows, 3D flowers. Utterly beautiful Star

Flowers @SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius Her beautiful ‘trademark’ flowers, on deep purple with cream and red flowers. Utterly perfect Star

Flowers BH beautiful treasure in cream and purple. Gorgeous granny heart designs. Lovely. Star

Flowers AS stunning crochet designs in all three suffragette colours. Beautiful textures, 3D flowers. Brilliant Star

Much more to come. Am on phone and worried I’m going to lose the post!

Thank you so much everyone. Stunning treasure Flowers

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KnottyAndPistey · 07/11/2020 09:46

More beautiful squares have been arriving. Thank you so much lovely crafters. You really are incredible folk. Thank you so much Flowers

Flowers @bookbook stunning knits ‘Deeds not Words’ and 42. Both perfect. And glorious 3D flowers too. Wonderful Star

Flowers JG a wonderful square, Votes for Women. So clever. Flowers and stripes. All in suffragette colours. Marvellous Star

Flowers JG Beautiful traditional grannies in purple and cream and a gorgeous knit too. Fantastic Star

Flowers @ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba A beautiful take on the European Union 🇪🇺 flag and fabulous mixed colour traditional grannies in beautiful suffragette colours. Gorgeous Star

Flowers @Fairyfellowsmasterstroke Absolutely beautiful bobble hearts, such fantastic texture, gorgeous stripes, bobble flower. Super Star

Flowers SC Beautiful starry designs in purple and white. Utterly gorgeous Star

Totally beautiful. Thank you so much everyone Flowers

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TessoftheDobermans · 07/11/2020 10:06

Still not arrived @KnottyAndPistey. You did get my new address, didn't you? (PM'd it to you on 16 Oct)

KnottyAndPistey · 07/11/2020 13:05

definitely used it, I'll chase it up for you xx

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TessoftheDobermans · 07/11/2020 14:02

Thanks very much, you're a Star
I tried to order some myself this week - but all the suffragette colours were sold out! Grin

JellySlice · 07/11/2020 15:22

They were sold out of the green, so mine are not overly Suffragette.

In the post Monday, I hope.

Woolly Hugs. A Blanket for the family of the wonderful NormaStanleyFletcher.
KnottyAndPistey · 07/11/2020 16:57

Apologies there are more squares to come and folk to thank. Will carry on in the morn. Been a bit full on here today

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KnottyAndPistey · 07/11/2020 16:57

@TessoftheDobermans no idea why Grin

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KnottyAndPistey · 07/11/2020 16:58

@JellySlice Those are brilliant. Flowers

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BlueEyeshadow · 09/11/2020 14:14

Finally got my squares in the post today...

KnottyAndPistey · 10/11/2020 16:15

@BlueEyeshadow. Thank you so much xx

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KnottyAndPistey · 10/11/2020 16:36

Catching up with some more absolutely wonderful treasure arriving safely. Honestly you crafters are astonishing Flowers

Flowers @PiggyPlumPie Three beautiful traditional grannies in the three suffragette colours. Gorgeous Star

Flowers @MadisonAvenue Stunning 3D flowers, beautiful textures, all absolutely beautiful. Star

Flowers ES Wonderful crocheted treasure in green and cream. Solid grannies, beautiful stripes. Fabulous Star

Flowers @Costacoffeeplease Utterly beautiful. Gorgeous yellow flowers, Gorgeous granny designs in suffragette colours too. Lovely Star

Flowers @AmaDablam Fabulous treasure, absolutely stunning and gorgeous textures. All wonderful Star

Flowers @Run4it2 Absolutely wonderful knits in green and purple. Super snuggly textures. Beautiful Star

Flowers @Zhx3 Simply stunning crochet. Such wonderful designs in all three suffragette colours one with a little yellow flower too. Perfect. Star

Flowers @SpiralArchitect Absolutely gorgeous. In all three suffragette colours, such beautiful patterns. Is one the African violet? Fantastic Star

Flowers @MNPin2020 Four beautiful squares in the Suffragette flag, each embellished with a yellow rose bud. Wonderful Star

Flowers CN Beautiful crochet in cream with silver accents. All utterly gorgeous.

An incredible amount of wonderful treasure. Think we’ll easily achieve the two blankets. And they’ll both be absolutely stunning.

Thank you so much everyone Flowers

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JellySlice · 11/11/2020 00:05

Knotty, my squares are in two bags just for convenience. Please distribute them as you see fit between the two blankets, but the DON'T PANIC one is for Norma's blanket.

SpiralArchitect · 11/11/2020 10:43

@KnottyandPistey I think the one that looks a bit like the African violet pattern is the mini mandala one I linked to upthread?

Glad to hear they arrived safely!

Much love to Norma's family and friends Flowers