Hi, this is my first thread and I hope I'm ok doing this, I've asked ops permission. She's had some rough news, I'll attach link below, I've seen you guys are really knowledgeable and supportive and wondered if you could gather round and do what you do so beautifully ( I picture a band of miss jollies for some reason 
) I hope it's not out of order to ask and thank you for any input you can offer.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2956526-Devastated-at-unexpected-news
Thank you