Thank you all so, so much, am in tears at your kindness.
The statistics are hideous, as are the conditions a lot of the children live in. I went out to Belarus in 2012, as part of my (voluntary - I don't get paid, and neither do any of my families who help me) work with the charity, and it very nearly broke my heart.
The orphanages, the Abandoned baby Home, the hospice, the childrens cancer hospital, all of it. The quiet dignity and acceptance of the people there, the fact that a bottle of vodka costs less than a bottle of water, that everything these children eat, drink, breath is contaminated.
I have nearly 1000 pgotos from the week I spent there, and most of them made me cry. The section of the baby home that is for the babies with Downs Syndrome, the section for the cleft lip babies, the one for those with FAS...I could go on all night.
I run the Leeds group and have for a few years now. We fundraise the 7k needed for flights and visas for the children who come to Leeds in the summer, and we then give them the best 4 weeks we can - we beg every company we can think of to donate in some way - some are fantastic, others not so much - I am on call 24/7 while thew children are here as they are my overall responsibility, and by the end of August I am on my knees - but these kids arrive pale, pasty, grey faced, in the clothes they are wearing with one change if you're lucky, with a gift for you that their Mama;'s will have borrowed money to pay for - they go home 4 weeks later bursting with energy, having grown in EVERY way (going up 2 shoe sizes isn't uncommon), with 30 kkilos of luggage for them and their families, we take them to the dentist and optician and get any work done that is needed, and do our damndest to get them back onto a healthy path. Then we send them home, adn hope and pray they will make it...