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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sarah Phillimore and Robin Moira White interviewed by Andrew Doyle

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DerekFaker · 22/01/2023 22:40

About the Scottish gender recognition bill

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EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 17:25

Happy birthday GG!

Melroses · 29/01/2023 17:33

EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 16:37

“I think there are some differences between male and female advocates but I have always tried to borrow what you might call more female techniques such as controlling by silence, waiting for people to finish.”

Well that is certainly an imaginative spin on women ‘not being able to get a word in edgewise’.

That is quite something. Who knew 😵‍💫

Boiledbeetle · 29/01/2023 17:34

Melroses · 29/01/2023 17:33

That is quite something. Who knew 😵‍💫

🍷🍺🍫

Melroses · 29/01/2023 17:40

Boiledbeetle · 29/01/2023 17:34

🍷🍺🍫

Flowers Thank you. I will need those next time I am talked over. They won't last long. 😘

EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 17:49

beastlyslumber · 29/01/2023 17:11

But JB didn't get taken down. GG did. JB told Paris Lees that men could be lesbians and I guess she managed to manipulate/finagle her way through - maybe had better support in real life. GG just spoke the truth and she was un-personed and has barely been heard from since.

JB is an activist and was seriously targeted about a decade earlier than GG iirc. GG has a much higher profile and ‘national treasure’ status, and isn’t that keen schlepping about doing speaking gigs anyway from what I hear. She’s an author first and foremost and at retirement age, so she has less need to be on the platform or in the media, but maybe could have made some more documentaries which she was turned down for, I don’t know if that’s the case.

JB had to keep getting out there for her activism. I agree with you that she has been compromised - I even have a recollection of her saying that Ros Kaveney is “lovely” even though RK plotted her demise with Sarah Brown. But I don’t think she had it easier than GG. She also was really frustrated that no one, for years, came out and publicly supported her - she was quite isolated in that regard.

Having said that I bluddy love GG and take it personally if she is criticised (I even got kicked out of an online group, and was gutted about that, for sticking up for her).

IcakethereforeIam · 29/01/2023 17:53

I doubt she'll read this, if it's her birthday I hope she's getting spoiled and/or getting pissed, but

Happy Birthday GermaineCakeFlowers

Boiledbeetle · 29/01/2023 17:53

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DameMaud · 29/01/2023 17:58

Have you seen her in 'The Orville'? Was such a wonderful surprise to realise it was her.

DameMaud · 29/01/2023 18:00

DameMaud · 29/01/2023 17:58

Have you seen her in 'The Orville'? Was such a wonderful surprise to realise it was her.

This was meant to be a quote reply to Beastly!
Anyway. Happy birthday Germaine!🥂

ArabellaScott · 29/01/2023 18:05

Happy birthday to Germaine Greer. What a woman.

GailBlancheViola · 29/01/2023 18:20

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/01/2023 16:20

The thing TRAs always get wrong when they equate keeping male people out of female spaces with segregation based on racism or sexism, is that black people didn't want white institutions and society opened up to them because they wanted to be white, and women didn't want male institutions and society opened up to women because they wanted to be male. Nor was it because they particularly wanted the company of white, or male people, either.

They wanted to be there because that's where the power was. Because that's where decisions that affected their lives were being made, without them.

That's why these analogies, even if you believe some level of TWAW, don't stack up. Because womanhood, and women's spaces, are not a seat of power. In excluding male people from female spaces male people are disadvantaged nothing other than loss of access to female people.

Yet again, it comes down to trans ideologists' misunderstanding of womanhood as being simply what they see on the surface.

To a genderist, if it looks the same, then it is the same. If it's not fair to have white-only spaces, or male-only institutions, then it's not fair for spaces or institutions or opportunities to be female only either.

The context behind these provisions , the journey to get there both in terms of our society's evolving place for women and the journey of female people from birth to womanhood within that society, is unseen and therefore not factored in at all.

Excellent analysis.

LaughingPriest · 29/01/2023 18:35

but I have always tried to borrow what you might call more female techniques such as controlling by silence, waiting for people to finish.

Ah yes, this well-known biological female feature. In fact, when assigning babies as male or female, don't midwives check to see which kind of speech patterns the babies use?

Sex and gender, it's so confusing which is which! Particularly if you have what you might call a female brain!

TheClogLady · 29/01/2023 18:38

My father exercised coercive control of my mother via silence.

It’s a very male technique, imo.

beastlyslumber · 29/01/2023 18:50

GG has a much higher profile and ‘national treasure’ status

She did, @EndlessTea. Past tense.

I don't say that JB had it easier - they are really in different spheres - but GG was unpersoned and JB was not. I know JB's story is that she was banging this drum for years and no one supported her but it looks to me more like she was quite happy to play the media game and only really got her head round the trans stuff when other major players did. She certainly wasn't speaking the plain truth on it like Germaine was.

Having said that, I'm glad she spoke so firmly on this issue and I agree that "I don't care" is absolutely the right stance to take.

beastlyslumber · 29/01/2023 18:51

DameMaud · 29/01/2023 17:58

Have you seen her in 'The Orville'? Was such a wonderful surprise to realise it was her.

No - what's The Orville? (Surely nothing to do with the puppet...)

DameMaud · 29/01/2023 18:57

beastlyslumber · 29/01/2023 18:51

No - what's The Orville? (Surely nothing to do with the puppet...)

Brilliant Seth MacFarlane parody/homage to Star Trek. There was a whole appreciative thread on it on here.
Highly recommend Beastly

www.disneyplus.com/en-gb/series/the-orville/xJDRPuAtRWxz

Somanyquestionstoaskaboutthis · 29/01/2023 19:29

MmePoppySeedDefage · 29/01/2023 16:30

Here's a share token for the article about RMW mentioned earlier:

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/c8837b85-8970-4ee6-8385-62ac20671408?shareToken=5e237791178654a7bff839b55d3aa9400_

Grew his hair and wore nail varnish it says, and Lo! He was a she and walked on the wild side; only with the same voice 'cos £££.

Thank you. Interesting read.

beastlyslumber · 29/01/2023 19:34

DameMaud · 29/01/2023 18:57

Brilliant Seth MacFarlane parody/homage to Star Trek. There was a whole appreciative thread on it on here.
Highly recommend Beastly

www.disneyplus.com/en-gb/series/the-orville/xJDRPuAtRWxz

Fab, thank you!

IcakethereforeIam · 29/01/2023 20:32

JB had a link on her twitter to and article she wrote in 2004 for the Guardian (imagine) about gender and lesbians. I linked it on the general conversation thread. I was impressed she was writing about it 20 years ago, around the time of the GRA I suppose. If GG was warning us further back than that then she was prescient indeed and I wish more people had listened.

I hope I can learn more about the history of this, when it is history.

ditalini · 29/01/2023 20:34

IcakethereforeIam · 29/01/2023 20:32

JB had a link on her twitter to and article she wrote in 2004 for the Guardian (imagine) about gender and lesbians. I linked it on the general conversation thread. I was impressed she was writing about it 20 years ago, around the time of the GRA I suppose. If GG was warning us further back than that then she was prescient indeed and I wish more people had listened.

I hope I can learn more about the history of this, when it is history.

The Whole Woman came out in 1999 and GG covered it there. The writing was on the wall and she did warn us.

ditalini · 29/01/2023 20:37

And Janice Raymond wrote The Transexual Empire in 1979.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Transsexual_Empire?wprov=sfla1

PIKNIK20 · 29/01/2023 20:38

Robin is wearing a mini skirt and manspreading...

EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 20:38

ditalini · 29/01/2023 20:34

The Whole Woman came out in 1999 and GG covered it there. The writing was on the wall and she did warn us.

And Janice Raymond was even more prescient in 1979 with The Transsexual Empire.

ditalini · 29/01/2023 20:40

EndlessTea · 29/01/2023 20:38

And Janice Raymond was even more prescient in 1979 with The Transsexual Empire.

Snap! And reading that Wikipedia article (I should have known better) it looks like the usual suspects have been on the editing case.

beastlyslumber · 29/01/2023 20:42

Was just about to say The Whole Woman!

But I didn't know that JB had written on this in 2004. It was later than that when she told Paris Lees that men could be lesbians so I assumed she had been mostly ignoring it before then. I know she apologised to him for her previous comments on gender so maybe that's what she's referring to.

Anyway, good to see her on GBN saying sensible things. I am going to put aside my personal dislike of her and try to take her on face value for what she says from now on. We all make mistakes, after all.

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