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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

So banning the Burka - freeing women from opression or taking away free choice...?

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Portoeufino · 09/04/2010 20:23

I read that in Belgium there is a draft bill to ban burkas and also the niqab.

As they put it " There is nothing in Islam or the Koran about the burka. It has become an institution of intimidation and is a sign of submission of women. A civilized society cannot accept the imprisonment of women."

They then talk of "matters of public safety" - is that implying that if you wear a burka is it therefore likely you might have it stuffed with explosives? Or if you cover your face, then there are security issues connected with that?

I have to admit I am very ignorant about all this. DO women only wear this clothing because they are opressed? Do they choose to? What happens if it is banned? Are women freed, or will they end up forbidden from leaving the house?

I am very interested to learn and understand more about this.

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umayma · 11/04/2010 00:01

MrsPixie

Most children who wear headscarf, just wear it occasionaly, so they get a bit used to it.

some wear it just in school, like a uniform,

some, just when they go to mosque or for Qur'an lessons.

MillyR · 11/04/2010 00:01

Portofino, why have you put this thread in the feminism section? Are you specifically seeking feminist perspective on this issue?

dittany · 11/04/2010 00:04

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Portofino · 11/04/2010 00:04

Yes. Well surely the right to wear a burqa or not IS a feminist issue? When the govt wants to legislate against it and all...

dittany · 11/04/2010 00:06

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Portofino · 11/04/2010 00:06

dittany ffs. I said numerous times that this thread was about discussing clothing! If you want to discuss child sex abuse, then start your own thread!

dittany · 11/04/2010 00:08

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MillyR · 11/04/2010 00:11

Portofino, yes this is a feminist issue, but it is also an issue for many people who have perspectives on it that are not influenced by feminist thinking.

Are you seeking feminist perspectives or a range of different perspectives?

Portofino · 11/04/2010 00:11

dittany this is NOT a thread about patriachal religion per se either. You are ranting now. I want to be EDUCATED. This is not AIBU!

dittany · 11/04/2010 00:12

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Portofino · 11/04/2010 00:16

MillyR, yes you have a good point there. I have to admit that before this turned into 7 pages of paedophilia/religion bashing I was hoping for a female/feminist approach on what it means to wear this clothing and what it might mean to individuals if it was banned.

Portofino · 11/04/2010 00:28

Dittany, I might not have read all the right literature, but I believe we are all entitled to have our beliefs and live our lives in the way we want to. Surely THAT is feminism! That women can do what they want....?

On this thread there have been many responses from Muslim women who have explained why they wear the clothing they do. I have learnt a lot from that which was my aim.

I fully agree that a lot goes on in this world that is not right. But having a go at me is not the way to change anything.

dittany · 11/04/2010 00:39

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Portofino · 11/04/2010 08:30

I have not tried to bully you off the thread, but the thread was becoming something that it was never meant to be!

I suggested that if you wanted to discuss other topics then you should start your own thread. That is all. The thread was completely hijacked by a rant about child abuse.

I personally don't agree with burqa wearing. I never said at any point that I did. I seek to understand WHY women wear these clothes and whether they should be forbidden to do so. Admittedly no burqa wearers have come forth but several muslim women have given their thoughts on why they wear the niqab. And not one of them say they are "forced" to do it. They choose to dress as they do. I KNOW this is not the case for everyone, and that it could be argued that they "choose" to because of religious expectations/requirements and that it is not a free "choice" at all.

Willabywallaby · 11/04/2010 09:07

Would it be the 'done thing' to repost this in religion, not feminism? Just a thought.

Xenia · 11/04/2010 09:20

Dittany is right.
I am libertarian but also a Capitalist feminist and very interested in religion too.

I think going as far as banning is going too far. I would ban it if you're giving evidence in court and have to be identified and I would ban it on GPs working in their surgery or places where you'd fall over because of all the stupid long material. I would not impose a general ban however.

Then there are other things done in the name of religion or even God which I would and we do ban - like the FLDS in the US underage sex or in the UK we ban female circumcism operations which sadly large numbers of UK little girls endure abroad.

In other words there is a line to be drawn where we say objectively this is morally wrong and is not allowed and indeed that we should intervene to stop it happening and other things which are just religiously and culturally stupid and if women want to get taken in by them then so be it.

The covering up issue however is a femininst issue, very much so. Plenty of British women adopted dungarees, flat shoes, short hair to ensure they weren't sex objects and lots adopt relatively modest dress at work so they can lead the company without sex getting in the way. I think how we look and react to men and women has a huge impact on how we're treated. I don't look too bad in my 40s and I've used my image although it would be 5% of what I am compared to my professional expertise - I like to think I'm the best at what I do in the UK etc.

I didn't feel sexually liberated from the male gaze in Iran. I felt a massive barrier was erected, that the constant fiddling with the stupid head stuff got in the way. I couldn't hear the translation properly because my ears were covered. I hope that all those problems which could be so visibly seen and were recorded helped make my audiences realise how ridiculous those clothing rules are.

Sometimes I got out in flat shoes fairly covered up. You are treated very differently and that can serve a particular purpose. At other times I find I get better attention and service when I look mym usual reasonably pretty expensive but that's more a class than a covered up issue.

Most of us don't entirely choose what we think we choose though, do we?

The femininist issue in all this is whether covering up your sexuality, adopting the lesbian dungarees look in effect which is what the burka does, frees women. I'd say it was a silly way to free you as you can't do handstands in the park so easily so it's not freeing the sense Victorian women who started to wear trousers found - that was more truly freeing.

The internet frees us too. I could be 40 stone and disabled and look dreadful but no one would know. Plenty of women who cover up are fat and ugly and I bet that frees them. Just think about that Indian sports man who married by phone (muslim , valid marriage). had never met her. Then he finds out she's fat. Anyway he's sorted that out as he's divorced her and can marry his true love who of course is thin.

sarah293 · 11/04/2010 09:32

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MillyR · 11/04/2010 10:53

It is just absurd to claim it has no health impact when studies from many parts of the world have shown it does. That health impact is avoidable - women could continue to cover up and avoid getting osteomalacia and their babies getting rickets by taking vitamin D supplements. Pretending that there isn't currently a health problem is not helping inform those women, particularly when the NHS in areas where rickets and osteomalacia are present are trying to inform people of the risk.

It is similar to women going out drinking in short skirts and ending up with hypothermia. You don't have to stop drinking or stop wearing short skirts, but you do have to be aware of the risk of hypothermia and make sure that you take appropriate steps while out to avoid it.

Molesworth · 11/04/2010 10:57

"I do feel free and liberated covering up (I'm not fat or particuarly minging either). Another woman might not. But I do feel free from wolf whistles, the male gaze and specualtion on my figure/weight/fashion sense. I feel free from having to loook a certain way. Then I feel poeple talk to me as a person."

This is pretty much exactly what the woman in the French documentary was saying, and I find it persuasive from a liberal point of view. But the problem from a feminist point of view is that - as purits and others have pointed out - the answer to objectification is not to cover ourselves but to tackle the conditions that give rise to that objectification in the first place. Another problem is that even if covering can be interpreted as a feminist practice, you're not rejecting objectification by covering yourself with some symbolically neutral garment (which dungarees were back in the 70s, I guess), but with a garment which carries all these connotations of patriarchal religious oppression. Reading the posts about the religious (not just Islam but any religion which requires women to cover themselves) reasons for covering, it seems to me that it rests on the assumption that the male objectification of women is inevitable: I don't see how that can ever be compatible with feminism.

MillyR · 11/04/2010 11:07

The argument that something is not Islamic because it is not in the religious texts is irrelevant. Religions only exist through the cultural groups that adhere to them.

I have heard similar arguments from Christians all my life. 'Well homophobia (or whatever) isn't Christian because Jesus never mentioned homosexuality.' That is totally irrelevant when it is Christian groups who perpetuate that homophobia based on their adherence to a religion.

This argument about child sex could be ended very easily; the people who defended it or justified it on the grounds of it being part of a different culture (either because they are religious or because they are cultural relativists or both) could simply say that having sex with an eleven year old is always wrong, regardless of culture or religion.

But they won't. I can only assume that is because their religion or philosophical beliefs are more important to them that the rights of a child.

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