Ooooh the claws are coming out. I have a feeling that some of the now polemic insults and clichés bundied around might stem from a general unease and hatred towards the ?whore?. How come when you cannot use clear arguments and are incapable of actually substantiating your spurious claims you resort to insults? It isn?t the men who show disrespect to women and their sexual organs but some of you supposed feminist women are truly aggressive and offensive towards sex workers. Is this how your brand of feminism works? If you cannot convince/shout me down you will label me with gratuitous insults? Shame that me aka Fuckhole can actually continue with a reasoned debate without the insults.
I have a property in Notting Hill which actually for a better word is a ?boudoir?. Like many self employed people I like to have a separate work place. I could coyly call it an office but it actually is a boudoir.
Again I speak for me and echo the thoughts of likeminded colleagues who have discussed this thread on an industry forum ? please in turn those do the same ? speak for yourselves and try and stop to speak for and on behalf of sex workers. The problem really a lot of people outside of the industry have is that we reserve the right to actually have a free will and choice. You are clearly demonstrating that you want to deny me that clear choice and free will.
Thousands of women encounter different forms of paid sex works but thousands work in a very similar way to me. Some ladies prefer to work for an agency or parlour. They may pay a fee etc but then they do not have the overheads I have. We all tend to opt for what suits us most. And then some women work at the top of their profession some have poorly paid jobs. Again that is sadly part of an ongoing social injustice that affects women and men across the world.
As for men degrading women ? again that sadly is an aspect of society that does not actually exist because of prostitution or as part of it. By actually not labelling and degrading the sexual needs of my clients you might stop from perpetuating the mutual disrespect. Any of you may encounter sexually aggressive and disrespectful men; I do not as part of my work. I have some clear parameters and dos and don?ts for any appointment and will not offer my services to those that do not respect my working methods.
So if you some of you are trying to make me responsible for the attitude of society then please extend some simple courtesy and respect to all women. Stop the hypocrisy, insults and actually try and offer a real argument instead of polemics and continuing simplistic propaganda. Some sex workers do not do well, some workers in poorly paid stressful jobs falter and suffer from burnout. There can be great harm to health and society in most industries if they have an unfair pay structure and as long there is a massive socially disadvantaged group. The reasons for exploitation, including the sex industry are not as simplistic as many of you try to portray and includes issues of class, education and so on. Sex at street level exists not because of escorts like us on the other end of the spectrum but because there are men with lower incomes. Many students right now use escorting to pay for their degrees. Shame that the current government includes a lot of female politicians who have had the possibility to study for free with a full grant ? yet have contributed to increasing two tier system of those that can afford education and those that cannot.
Again to reiterate unlike a few of you, I speak for myself ? all I ask is for some basic courtesy and too kindly desist from trying to speak for women like me. I am impressed by a number of intelligent and interesting members on this forum but unfortunately there are the judgemental types that try and dress up their ignorance and hatred of prostitutes as actually trying to save them. The hypocrisy of some of the women trying to argue for some form of sanitised sisterhood is rather startling. Every time so far anyone working as a prostitute is trying to enter a debate with those not in the industry ? it seems to sooner or later turn into a slanging match with insults against the whore/fuck hole. Sorry but this does not look like respect or indeed true genuine concern for any of us.
As for using Miss it is close to one of my working names. To be honest the point is not whether I am female, a sex worker or anything else. It actually is about not receiving any real argument about some points you claimed. And I am not English ? it wasn?t even my second or third language. However, I think I am fluent enough to argue my case without cheap primitive insults. Sadly, this does not seem to be the case for a few native speakers. Ironically, quite a few members here happen to post on a whore board as people do not stop being women, parents etc. I think the biggest issue some people including the most vociferous and insulting here have is that far from the little oppressed dumb women you seem to want to save from ourselves and sexual exploitation; you are faced with those who can actually articulate clearly reasoned intelligent points in stark contrast to some of the posts.
Anyway, thanks to those that had some great points. The rest are sadly as I imagined the bigoted Bindel clones to be. She too tries to shout down or insult us if try to speak for ourselves.