Who do you personally consider to be a “sensible gender critical”?
Ooo I know this one! ( leaving aside the unpleasant dehumanising of using gender critical as a noun 🙄)
It's a person who holds gender critical views but never ever ever expresses them out of consideration for how said views might distress a trans person.
It's a person who very reasonably wants sports and prisons to be single sex but is never gauche enough to say so, or to explain why this should be necessary.
It's a person who secretly hopes the loud and nasty gender critical feminists will speak up and sort things out so they can loudly condemn said feminists in public for their bad and nasty ways while benefitting from said women's efforts.
Schrodinger's gender criticism. Absolutely ok as long as it remains undetectable.