Is this not blatant fetish ? Or at least someone reaching for their childhood

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I've heard a lot about how brave these people are and how gender dysphoria is real, the reasons for why aman would become a woman ect ('they already were a woman'), and have walked past them before in public. Always in clothes or intentional features or accessories that seem off for an adult woman. Of course they dont look like ladies anyways due to the biological male features but even besides that.. its strange.

Found this online too and found it to be a prime example , sadly! Most wont say its a fetish. But it seems like it often is. Or if its not sexual at all, its a Peter pan syndrome sort of thing..

(Ive not attached the person's username and I dont think this would be 'doxxing' as ive not shared which platform/ the surnames of this person)

More scarily in this case.. other posts this poster has made:

"Wanting a Disney Princess-themed little girl's bedroom and dollhouse

2025 – 2026

Purchasing school uniform items online (experienced without clear awareness)

2025

Wanting to attend mainstream school

Wanting to wear school uniform with skirt, sweatshirt and yellow polo

2026

Feeling others would not believe identity as a girl without makeup

Police involvement when going out of sight of home

Wanting school attendance, friendships at playtime and sleepovers

Note: The years listed represent the period in which each experience or pattern first emerged or became identifiable, not the full duration of that experience."

As well as:

"I would really like to attend mainstream school as a girl and be able to wear a girl's school uniform with a pleated skirt, sweatshirt and polo. I would really like to attend school as a pupil. I've never had mainstream schooling and have only been to special schools. My body size and height is that of someone 10 years older which makes believing my age difficult. What can I do is there someone I can speak to about this."

Just wow.

Meh, social media isn't necessarily the real world nor is anecdotal experience reflective of the majority.

And btw, plenty of young women get around in sexually explicit clothing so if anything its just reflecting a broad fashion trend than sexual deviance.

Sorry, just to clarify .. you think this is just a new fashion trend? There's nothing concerning about the attitude towards little girls and wanting to join school despite (based on the timeline) being an adult (albeit a young one)? It should be accepted and tolerated as an identity difference ?

I was referring to your comments about clothing in general not the specific individual you sighted as 'proof' of this:

"Always in clothes or intentional features or accessories that seem off for an adult woman."

My DS loves dollshouses and Disney princesses but that doesn’t remotely make him less of a boy. He can wear his Rapunzel hair all he likes but he knows he’s a boy and that’s fine.

I wish these people realised that there’s more to being a woman than just wearing a skirt and make up and being “cute”. I’m a woman and I do none of those things, it’s definitely a fetish.

I'll add that i do know that not all of them say things this blatant in real life and that many trans gender individuals will appear to be relatively normal in person . Especially when it comes to the bathroom issue. I have the somewhat unpopular view here that its not always for sexual gratification , some genuinely believe that they're women despite the fact that theyre not- but it is still not right at the end of the day, a lot of women would feel discomfort with that. Im a muslim woman and while I dont always wear hijab I know family members and friends who do and would feel uncomfortable sharing single sex spaces with them. Even the ones who are convinced that they're women dont get to override that.

that being said we're kidding ourselves if we say a lot of them (not all) arent sexually aroused from the thought of presenting as girls. Young ones at that . Why would any of them declare this in person? If someone feels that way of course they wont announce it if its not anonymous

So are you suggesting wearing a skirt & make up is a fetish for women too because you don't do it?

100 %. Feminine interests dont override biology. I'm also guessing that your son is much younger than this person .

They often dont follow fashion choices that adult women do. Also why quote that part about that person then? Its strange to not condemn it and to downplay that behaviour

This ‘gender story’ begins in 2005, which is 21 years ago, and matthew describes wanting to wear school uniform 21 years later in 2026. Hrs no longer school age, so it’s definitely a fetish.

Individuals not reflecting the majority is common sense so I don't think an individual instance is worthy of making any meaningful conclusions about.

And adult younger women do commonly make sexually explicitly clothing choices. Perhaps you need to get out more?

Not at all but it’s weird how these men seem to think that’s what makes you a woman when in reality, loads of women don’t wear those things or act in those ways. Thats why makes me think it’s definitely a fetish for them.

He's mentally wanking all over the internet. Yuk.

And yes, DS is 8 but he loves his dinosaurs and his tutu.

Fromwhat I understand its not the actual clothes trans people associate to being women & men but their inclinations towards an interest in the same sorts of things that does.

Whilst its true deviations from the norm exist that doesn't change the fact there are distinct differences between men's & women's behaviours & social roles that makes them categorically different hence the stereotypical associations.

It’s an example of someone who likely has some mental health or developmental challenges living an entirely disembodied life and getting their head all muddled up with endless talk of identity/gender and it getting tangled with their sexual development. It’s sad. And scary.

Not according to a consensus of global experts its not.

So you are supporting that person then.

Well obviously the age is grossly problematic but as I said any individual views aren't necessarily reflective of the majority so I don't see the relevance as a representation of trans women just as I don't see female killers of their own children reflective of mothers in general.