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For which services is separate by "gender" appropriate?

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MyAmpleSheep · Yesterday 12:36

Assuming it to be compliant with all relevant legislation (which is another discussion), which public services make more (or enough) sense to separate by self-defined gender rather than by sex?

We are often told that segregating by sex is permissible but not the only way to split "men" and "women" and that it's proportionate and appropriate to split men-identifiers from women-identifiers in some services in "appropriate circumstances" or some other phrase.

What are those services, and what are the appropriate circumstances?

This is a question about services, so I'm explicitly not referring to what the EA2010 covers under associations. Social groups are not services, and they can already be split or made exclusive in a much wider range of ways; I'm not asking about them. Only about public services. For clarity it's probably best to avoid terminology like "single sex spaces" because it's easy to misunderstand whether a "space" is a service - or an association.

So - which services can appropriately be segregated as women+trans-identifying men (women+ "trans women") and men+trans-identifying women (men + "trans men")?

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alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:15

Shedmistress · Yesterday 17:14

I believe the question is 'for which services is seperation by gender not sex appropriate?'

What services are you saying would be appropriate for women and men who say they are women and not for men or women who say they are men; or indeed vice versa?

Edited

As I've answered - any that wish to.

murasaki · Yesterday 17:15

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:12

It's a question. You said: "I'm sorry but transwomen have no idea how vulnerable women can feel. They are men. They cannot share the same experiences. Ever." I'm giving you an extreme example and I'm asking you if you stand by your claim.

And I do. That horrific example you used potentially happened to a man rather than to a woman. It is different.

And given you used murder, no one is available to speak to the vulnerability.

It was a ludicrous thing to say.

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 17:16

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:10

Am I required to agree or disagree with Stonewall? I'm not entirely sure what Stonewall has to do with anything here. I've given my opinion. Is there another entity you wish to point out that I disagree with? English National Opera? British Gas? Julie's Caff on the M22?

As to your second point - whoever wishes to. There are quite a few organisations that have been forced to stop being single-gender when they would prefer to continue.

According to wikipedia Stonewall is the largest LGBT rights organisation in Europe, so I would assume that their opinion stands for something and is more likely to hold sway over public policy than any individual posting on this site.

There are quite a few organisations that have been forced to stop being single-gender when they would prefer to continue.

Can you give examples? Can you give examples of the kind of person they might turn away for being the wrong gender?

BackToLurk · Yesterday 17:16

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:03

Is a raped and murdered trans woman less of a rape and murder victim than a raped and murdered biological woman?

No less of a victim than any other raped and murdered man. Or do you think otherwise?

Talkinpeace · Yesterday 17:17

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:00

Male or female, surely? 'Men' and 'women' are gender constructs.

Woman = Adult human female = biology, not a construct, observable long after death
Man = Adult human male = biology, not a construct, observable long after death

Masculine = a societal construct that varies between cultures and over time
Patriarchy = a series of societal constructs that preserve the rights of men over women

Feminine = a societal construct of how women should dress and behave that varies between cultures and over time
Matriarchy = a rare social system that puts women in the position of power

Truinio · Yesterday 17:17

murasaki · Yesterday 12:47

Seriously though, we'd need to define services first. E.g. I don't think a book group is a service.

A book group is an association, which is treated differently to a service in the Equality Act. For a start, the exceptions are far wider ranging: an association can legally discriminate on all protected characteristics except race.

Soontobe60 · Yesterday 17:18

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:03

Is a raped and murdered trans woman less of a rape and murder victim than a raped and murdered biological woman?

Go on then, how many men who claim to be women have been raped or murdered in the UK this year? And while you’re at it, which sex did the raping and murdering?

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 17:18

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:11

I understand that you can't provide any examples.

You don't understand my answer then.

Here's one example for you. Modern version of a pub with a "No Irish" rule. https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/irish-traveller-settles-race-discrimination-claim-support-equality-watchdog

Because I'm extra nice to you, it also illustrates my point about the EA. Hopefully this helps you understand.

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:18

BackToLurk · Yesterday 17:16

No less of a victim than any other raped and murdered man. Or do you think otherwise?

No, I think they have shared the same horrifying experience. As was the point of my post. Surely you didn't miss the point quite so spectacularly?

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:20

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 17:18

You don't understand my answer then.

Here's one example for you. Modern version of a pub with a "No Irish" rule. https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/irish-traveller-settles-race-discrimination-claim-support-equality-watchdog

Because I'm extra nice to you, it also illustrates my point about the EA. Hopefully this helps you understand.

So one example from 2024 shows 'quite a lot of call'? Interesting.

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:21

Soontobe60 · Yesterday 17:18

Go on then, how many men who claim to be women have been raped or murdered in the UK this year? And while you’re at it, which sex did the raping and murdering?

Why?

BackToLurk · Yesterday 17:21

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:18

No, I think they have shared the same horrifying experience. As was the point of my post. Surely you didn't miss the point quite so spectacularly?

You point was men and women have the same experiences and the same feelings of vulnerability?

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 17:21

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:20

So one example from 2024 shows 'quite a lot of call'? Interesting.

Sorry - so you think there isn't problem with racism in the UK?

Shedmistress · Yesterday 17:21

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:15

As I've answered - any that wish to.

Why would anyone wish to host a 'single gender' service or facility rather than just an 'mixed sex' one? What sort of service do you mean?

HenriettaSwanLeavitt2 · Yesterday 17:24

Truinio · Yesterday 17:17

A book group is an association, which is treated differently to a service in the Equality Act. For a start, the exceptions are far wider ranging: an association can legally discriminate on all protected characteristics except race.

What if it were a book group offered by a Council-run library? Would that make it a service?

StealthTroublemaker · Yesterday 17:25

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 16:43

I recognise - as do many other people - that trans people exist. While a trans woman is male, she is not a 'man' in either thought or presentation. You may disagree - and I'm sure there will be screams of 'HE'S A MAN!!!!111' being typed out even more - but I'm trying to explain why I believe there's a difference. And again - before I'm accused of all manner of nonsense - I believe single sex spaces should mean single sex.

So what is the difference between a male with a trans identity and one without that makes one welcome according to you in female spaces and one not?

Soontobe60 · Yesterday 17:26

Truinio · Yesterday 17:17

A book group is an association, which is treated differently to a service in the Equality Act. For a start, the exceptions are far wider ranging: an association can legally discriminate on all protected characteristics except race.

So does that mean the an association that was set up for, say, Black African asylum seekers would also have to include Iranian asylum seekers?

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:26

BackToLurk · Yesterday 17:21

You point was men and women have the same experiences and the same feelings of vulnerability?

My (very clear) point was that women and trans women can share the same experiences and feelings of vulnerability and it is nonsense to suggest they cannot.

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:27

Shedmistress · Yesterday 17:21

Why would anyone wish to host a 'single gender' service or facility rather than just an 'mixed sex' one? What sort of service do you mean?

Because they wish to welcome trans women or trans men into their service alongside biological women or men.

BackToLurk · Yesterday 17:27

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:26

My (very clear) point was that women and trans women can share the same experiences and feelings of vulnerability and it is nonsense to suggest they cannot.

As can any man. So?

Soontobe60 · Yesterday 17:28

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:26

My (very clear) point was that women and trans women can share the same experiences and feelings of vulnerability and it is nonsense to suggest they cannot.

So men and women can share the same experiences and feelings of vulnerability and it is nonsense to suggest they cannot?
Got it!

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 17:28

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:20

So one example from 2024 shows 'quite a lot of call'? Interesting.

Yep, you really don't understand my point about the EA at all. Or are pretending not to.

I've done enough to prove my point to anyone here in good faith who might be mislead by your lightweight jibes.

If I thought you were a person of integrity asking a genuine question I'd have put a bit more effort in and posted the other links I pulled up with a five second search, but that takes a bit of my own time to validate the information and I'm afraid given your posting history I simply do not consider you worth the effort.

Have a nice evening.

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 17:30

Shedmistress · Yesterday 17:21

Why would anyone wish to host a 'single gender' service or facility rather than just an 'mixed sex' one? What sort of service do you mean?

I think that would be a service, but surely the last thing they would want to do is set up a 'single gender service' and then start having to decide whether people had the right gender.

BaobhanSith · Yesterday 17:30

alcovecupboards · Yesterday 17:26

My (very clear) point was that women and trans women can share the same experiences and feelings of vulnerability and it is nonsense to suggest they cannot.

Identify just one single incidence of a transwoman becoming pregnant against their will? Just one. The experience of a transwoman is not the same as a woman.

Truinio · Yesterday 17:30

HenriettaSwanLeavitt2 · Yesterday 17:24

What if it were a book group offered by a Council-run library? Would that make it a service?

Then it would be a service, not an association. Additionally it would have further duties under the public service provision in part 1 (these don’t apply to private sector service providers)