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Can you be a fully trans inclusive feminist?

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Imdunfer · 07/10/2026 08:29

Inspired from another thread where it was out of place so I brought it here.

Someone seemed to claim that it was possible to be both be a feminist and to be trans inclusive, where by trans inclusive they mean males in women's spaces and shortlists (the attitude to sport wasn't stated).

I don't believe that you can truly be both, do you?

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murasaki · 08/10/2026 00:00

This question has been asked many times, by many people, but never answered. What do I as a woman, have I common with a TW that I don't have in common with any other man?

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:07

murasaki · 08/10/2026 00:00

This question has been asked many times, by many people, but never answered. What do I as a woman, have I common with a TW that I don't have in common with any other man?

Its been answered repeatedly. You don't want to listen to the answer. TW are simply identifying with associations to social category that are group based so it doesn't apply to individuals. They didn't make up the social associations to women, society did.

murasaki · 08/10/2026 00:08

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:07

Its been answered repeatedly. You don't want to listen to the answer. TW are simply identifying with associations to social category that are group based so it doesn't apply to individuals. They didn't make up the social associations to women, society did.

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Word soup. What specific things.

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:10

murasaki · 08/10/2026 00:08

Word soup. What specific things.

word soup = owww my brain hurtz

Social associations to women? You tell me given that you're gender critical & thereby believe that stereotypes are socially constructed. What stereotypes are you all referring to?

Thelnebriati · 08/10/2026 00:11

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 07/10/2026 23:45

Technically there are no 'women's rights' or 'men rights'. All there is anti discrimination law based on sex where special exemptions exist that are reliant on a disadvantage which is context determined.

You swerved my point. I didn't say there were men's rights and women's rights; I said the mens behaviour removed rights from the women.

murasaki · 08/10/2026 00:12

I didn't use the word stereotype at all, I just asked what I have in common with TW that I don't with all men. You are yet to answer.

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:13

Thelnebriati · 08/10/2026 00:11

You swerved my point. I didn't say there were men's rights and women's rights; I said the mens behaviour removed rights from the women.

I didn't swerve anything I explained to you since it appears you have no idea how the law works in ensuring equality & fairness.

murasaki · 08/10/2026 00:13

As far as I can see, Chopping has no answers so has resorted to rudeness. Same as it ever was.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/10/2026 00:14

murasaki · 08/10/2026 00:13

As far as I can see, Chopping has no answers so has resorted to rudeness. Same as it ever was.

I wish MN talk guidelines would let me elaborate on what I think.

Pingponghavoc · 08/10/2026 00:15

The idea of 'sociology' men and women is just different language for trans identifying people, rather than being a concept men and women experience.

We dont treat women who arent trans as sociologically men, regardless of what they look like or their behaviour. They are women.

You are basically saying there are biological women and men, and trans identifying people. But that doesnt explain why you think the trans identifying people should be treated as the opposite sex.

There isnt a real category of sociological women which included both males and females.

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:16

murasaki · 08/10/2026 00:12

I didn't use the word stereotype at all, I just asked what I have in common with TW that I don't with all men. You are yet to answer.

But its gender critical proponents that claim the commonalities are socially constructed stereotypes. So you already know what those are.

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:18

Pingponghavoc · 08/10/2026 00:15

The idea of 'sociology' men and women is just different language for trans identifying people, rather than being a concept men and women experience.

We dont treat women who arent trans as sociologically men, regardless of what they look like or their behaviour. They are women.

You are basically saying there are biological women and men, and trans identifying people. But that doesnt explain why you think the trans identifying people should be treated as the opposite sex.

There isnt a real category of sociological women which included both males and females.

But that doesnt explain why you think the trans identifying people should be treated as the opposite sex.

I already explained repeatedly that's dependant on disadvantage in a particular circumstance. Disadvantage is the determining factor for treatment not sex.

Pingponghavoc · 08/10/2026 00:27

When men are disadvantaged they should be treated as if they are women?

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:35

Pingponghavoc · 08/10/2026 00:27

When men are disadvantaged they should be treated as if they are women?

Can you specify a situation?

newrubylane · 08/10/2026 00:35

StandingDeskDisco · 07/10/2026 10:40

men hold more structural and societal power and that has led to ongoing oppression.

I find it interesting that you didn't identify the object of the oppression in that sentence. Who is it that is being oppressed?

Looking at it through a trad-left lens, I would add a 'some' at the beginning:
'Some men hold more structural and societal power...'
And they oppress everyone else - both male and female.

If your concern is mainly with who is doing the oppressing, and dismantling the tools and mechanisms they use to oppress others, it might be easy to lose sight of the importance of analysing who are the people being oppressed, and how and why is each group being oppressed.
I think some modern ways of thinking tend to do this, by lumping all oppressed people together, be it black, disabled, mentally ill, women, trans, gay, or whatever. From there it is just a small step to oppression being something you can identify into.

Traditional schools of feminism are concerned with exactly one class of people who are being oppressed: biological women.
Within this, there can be more or less concern with intersecting factors of oppression such as race and disability, but it is still about biological females.

I wonder one of the roots of the idea that 'feminism' can be about anyone who is being oppressed by structurally dominant males, is that we as a society have lost sight of the traditional leftist analysis of social class and the way power operates within capitalism.
If you are a man feeling oppressed and have no notion of trad-left analysis, you may latch on to 'feminism' as the thing that you use to fight male power.

I was going to pose the question in answer to the same post - define 'man', and explain how and why they hold more structural and societal power'?

But actually, your point is really interesting. Some idea that feeling oppressed by men is what makes you a woman?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/10/2026 00:36

It’s all such nonsense.

Pingponghavoc · 08/10/2026 00:40

Ive been talking to trans identifying people for years now, all of them make a more compelling argument than choppy. And they mostly say 'because I want to!'

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/10/2026 00:45

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:35

Can you specify a situation?

How about when Ted Bundy pretended to have a broken arm? If he’d said he was also a woman, would that make him safe? “Disadvantaged” is in the eye of the beholder, no?

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:48

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/10/2026 00:45

How about when Ted Bundy pretended to have a broken arm? If he’d said he was also a woman, would that make him safe? “Disadvantaged” is in the eye of the beholder, no?

The context is access to public spaces/resources not personal spaces.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/10/2026 00:49

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:48

The context is access to public spaces/resources not personal spaces.

Nice dodge 👍

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/10/2026 00:49

But then, I’m always posting for the lurkers.

Tears0fTheMushroom · 08/10/2026 01:25

TheKeatingFive · 07/10/2026 18:54

The brain knows whether you are a man or a woman?

What does this even mean?

How does the brain ‘know’ something in total opposition to the reproductive system?

I think he's talking about brain mapping. Thing is, the brain maps the body you have not some imaginary body you think you should have. That's how we get phantom limbs in amputees. The map the brain holds of the body is remarkably stable and accurate so it KNOWS that limb should be there. It doesn't get it wrong and scan for body parts that never existed though. The body builds the map in the brain, not the other way around.

Rollingpinofdoom · 08/10/2026 05:13

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 07/10/2026 22:50

Getting back to the point of this thread:

After 21 pages I remain of the view that you cannot be a feminist while you support biological men in female only spaces.

You don't seem to understand how this contradicts the fundamental principle feminism was predicated on which was equality in individual liberty that enables self determination. In other words individual liberty applies to all as in sexual equality not sexual superiority. Sex only comes into it if there is a disadvantage as a result of competing rights whereby rights are balanced according to the disadvantage that is circumstance dependant.

And this principle applies broadly as in all groups are equal but disadvantages in individual circumstances dictate how rights are apportioned.

Agreeing that trans women are women isn't a negation of rights balancing rather an acknowledgement that they are socially categorised as women. But social categorisation isn't an automatic entitlement to be treated the same as natal women…this is where rights balancing is relevant to adjudicating rights disputes.

But if you are saying TIM are only women in some circumstances…. You are saying they are not women. What do an adult human female and a male claiming to be a woman have uncommon thst make both of them women?

Rollingpinofdoom · 08/10/2026 05:15

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 08/10/2026 00:16

But its gender critical proponents that claim the commonalities are socially constructed stereotypes. So you already know what those are.

Noooo. Because if you’re waffling about ‘gender roles”, which are socially constructed, then they are not commonalities.

Chersfrozenface · 08/10/2026 06:50

Which gender roles are important? Which ones make you a woman or a man?

Are cooking, sewing and knitting female gender roles? Does that mean that when my husband cooks our evening meal, he is a woman? Is Kaffe Fassett a woman? Or the army officer who was a finalist on the Great British Sewing Bee? Or a tailor in Savile Row or Eton?

Or to take some examples from among my acquaintances, is the woman who does plumbing work in our area a man? Or the one who bashes people with a (blunt) sword in medieval re-enactments? Or the one who is an aircraft mechanic in the RAF or the other one who does the same job in an airline maintenance facility?