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TheKeatingFive · 05/10/2026 22:06

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 22:01

Why would she say it if it was redundant? Do you disagree with her?

You said she was absolutely correct to say this

"Recognising women’s need for access to single-sex services doesn’t require us to dismiss the rights of trans people. And recognising the vulnerability of trans people doesn’t require us to dismiss women’s concerns."

So what rights do you feel are being dismissed?

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 22:07

TheKeatingFive · 05/10/2026 22:06

You said she was absolutely correct to say this

"Recognising women’s need for access to single-sex services doesn’t require us to dismiss the rights of trans people. And recognising the vulnerability of trans people doesn’t require us to dismiss women’s concerns."

So what rights do you feel are being dismissed?

Are you suggesting she's lying about it? What an odd thing to post.

TheKeatingFive · 05/10/2026 22:08

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 22:07

Are you suggesting she's lying about it? What an odd thing to post.

Can you just answer the question.

You said you agreed with her.

I want to know what rights you/she think are under threat

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 22:11

TheKeatingFive · 05/10/2026 22:08

Can you just answer the question.

You said you agreed with her.

I want to know what rights you/she think are under threat

And I'm asking you whether you think Mary-Ann is lying. I do agree with her. She's quite right. You appear to think that she's making it up. Why would she do that? Do you think, perhaps, that given she is legally responsible for her organisation that she has to pay lip service to trans people and their rights? Are you saying the quiet part out loud? And this on a forum that regularly has posters insisting that trans people don't actually exist and therefore don't have rights...

TheKeatingFive · 05/10/2026 22:14

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 22:11

And I'm asking you whether you think Mary-Ann is lying. I do agree with her. She's quite right. You appear to think that she's making it up. Why would she do that? Do you think, perhaps, that given she is legally responsible for her organisation that she has to pay lip service to trans people and their rights? Are you saying the quiet part out loud? And this on a forum that regularly has posters insisting that trans people don't actually exist and therefore don't have rights...

I didn't say anything about whether I agree or disagree with her, because I don't know what she's referencing.

As you said you agreed with her, I asked you.

So I ask you again, what rights are under threat?

Myalternate · 05/10/2026 22:26

…on a forum that regularly has posters insisting that trans people don't actually exist and therefore don't have rights...

I’ve never seen anyone here say that trans people don’t exist.
Trans people however believe their own sex never existed. Bizarre.

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 22:29

TheKeatingFive · 05/10/2026 22:14

I didn't say anything about whether I agree or disagree with her, because I don't know what she's referencing.

As you said you agreed with her, I asked you.

So I ask you again, what rights are under threat?

So then you'd need to ask her what she's referring to, obviously.

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 22:30

Myalternate · 05/10/2026 22:26

…on a forum that regularly has posters insisting that trans people don't actually exist and therefore don't have rights...

I’ve never seen anyone here say that trans people don’t exist.
Trans people however believe their own sex never existed. Bizarre.

https://lmgtfy.com/?q=%22trans+doesn%27t+exist%22+mumsnet

LMGTFY

Let Me Google That For You (LMGTFY): for all those people who find it more convenient to bother you with their question rather than search it for themselves.

https://lmgtfy.com/?q=%22trans+doesn%27t+exist%22+mumsnet

BackToLurk · 05/10/2026 22:34

Myalternate · 05/10/2026 22:26

…on a forum that regularly has posters insisting that trans people don't actually exist and therefore don't have rights...

I’ve never seen anyone here say that trans people don’t exist.
Trans people however believe their own sex never existed. Bizarre.

I think we’re doing that thing where not believing in gender identity, and consequently that some people have a mismatch between their gender identity and their body, is characterised as saying that ‘transpeople don’t exist’. Which would be like arguing that not believing in Jesus as the son of god is saying Christians don’t exist. Inane in other words.

TheKeatingFive · 05/10/2026 22:35

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 22:29

So then you'd need to ask her what she's referring to, obviously.

But you said you completely agreed with her. Do you generally do that when you don't know what they mean? That strikes me as a pretty odd, no?

Myalternate · 05/10/2026 22:44

BackToLurk · 05/10/2026 22:34

I think we’re doing that thing where not believing in gender identity, and consequently that some people have a mismatch between their gender identity and their body, is characterised as saying that ‘transpeople don’t exist’. Which would be like arguing that not believing in Jesus as the son of god is saying Christians don’t exist. Inane in other words.

Oh we know that Trans and their Tranfans exist alright, the mere suggestion that a group of women get together to discuss topics that matter to women and it attracts a baying mob of them with loudhailers and offensive placards to demand women can’t get together without inviting them.

Datun · 06/10/2026 12:11

Wishesandhorses · 05/10/2026 21:02

The alternative would be to remove women and gay legal protections in law.

And in effect create a hierarchy in which some citizens get rights and control over others based on self identification.

This is why it would never get through the ECtHR: there is an absolute inability to get the TRA head around the idea that they wouldn't be the sole and only considered group, and given primacy over all others.

Or that a man desperate to get in amongst non consenting undressing women perhaps hasn't quite understood the idea of 'rights' and how they work.

This is how you know it's just empty hot air, playing to the gallery. It's an instant indication that they have no interest in, or ability to, discuss it rationally and come up with solutions.

They're not interested in solutions. They're interested in attracting the support of people who don't understand they're not interested in solutions.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2026 12:18

Datun · 06/10/2026 12:11

This is how you know it's just empty hot air, playing to the gallery. It's an instant indication that they have no interest in, or ability to, discuss it rationally and come up with solutions.

They're not interested in solutions. They're interested in attracting the support of people who don't understand they're not interested in solutions.

Yep. And that’s really all the thought anyone needs to give those posts.

Datun · 06/10/2026 12:24

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2026 12:18

Yep. And that’s really all the thought anyone needs to give those posts.

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