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Anyone else seeing LWD Director Viv Pointon’s posts about Sonia Sodha?

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IWantToMakeTea · 04/10/2026 09:07

Did anyone catch the comments LWD director Viv Pointon made about Sonia Sodha? She’s getting massive backlash online for explicitly targeting Sonia’s heritage and ethnicity.

Just to be 100% clear, I am and remain completely gender-critical— but I did end up leaving the LWD and WRN groups a while ago simply because of how some people, like Viv, were behaving behind the scenes.

The group chats just felt incredibly messy, bitchy, and unmoderated. Instead of being a supportive or organised space, they were frequently filled with general nastiness towards each other, a bizarre amount of hate directed at former Labour MP Rosie Duffield, and some shocking antisemitic comments. Viv herself was often a central part of that unpleasant atmosphere. A lot of the time, it was just constant chatty bullshit rather than anything actually relevant to GC campaign work. There were some bitchy LWD messages that got leaked to a newspaper a few months back. These are grown women behaving like playground bullies. I was going to go to the conference and attend the fringe group, but I decided not to go, though I might watch the videos on YouTube later.

Being in those groups was really eye-opening because it showed me the GC movement isn't 'love all around'. Maybe I was just a bit naive! Even though the core beliefs are massively important, seeing a director behave like that online to Sonia Sodha just reminds me that some people in the movement can end up doing more harm than good with their behaviour.

What does everyone else think?

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BackToLurk · 06/10/2026 15:45

Heggettypeg · 06/10/2026 15:13

What gets me about all this stuff is the inconsistency and the fact that the inconsistencies are agenda- driven.

For example: I don't know what the precise legal definitions are, but in popular parlance it seems that anyone whose ancestors got themselves to anywhere on the Americas before about 1492 AD counts as "indigenous". Fair enough. But apply the same sort of rule to people living in Europe or Eurasia and there would be howls of outrage in some quarters (though glee in others). Even if your ancestors arrived in Europe before 1492 BC you still get told that you're not indigenous, especially if some of them are known to have crossed about 20 miles of water in 500 AD.

I'm not personally wedded to any particular definition of indigenosity (if that's the word), or any particular view of ethnicity, but they should be thought through and then applied across the board, not gerrymandered to prop up vested interests of one kind or another.

But 1492 wasn't just plucked out of the air was it?

TheignT · 06/10/2026 15:51

Dadalus · 06/10/2026 13:01

I think you can make an argument for or against. But having a different view on this seems a flimsy basis for calling someone racist.

If you think the grandchildren of French/German/Polish immigrants are English but the grandchildren of African/West Indian/Indian immigrants arent I think that is racist.

Imnobody4 · 06/10/2026 15:54

TheignT · 06/10/2026 15:51

If you think the grandchildren of French/German/Polish immigrants are English but the grandchildren of African/West Indian/Indian immigrants arent I think that is racist.

What does it make you if you think they are all English with a non English heritage?

Heggettypeg · 06/10/2026 15:59

BackToLurk · 06/10/2026 15:45

But 1492 wasn't just plucked out of the air was it?

The arbitrary part is deciding that immigration to the Americas before 1492 doesn't count as immigration.

Villagetoraiseachild · 06/10/2026 16:06

This is playground level pettiness.
Sonia Sodha is a Queen.

nicepotoftea · 06/10/2026 16:08

Heggettypeg · 06/10/2026 15:59

The arbitrary part is deciding that immigration to the Americas before 1492 doesn't count as immigration.

I just want to make something clear. If there is ever any repatriation of people who emmigrated to America the Germans are getting Trump.

BackToLurk · 06/10/2026 16:10

Viv's initial tweet read

Why is it that those of us who are born of English heritage, going back generations, are denied our ethnicity and called racist by people whose families moved here in the last generation or two? Why are English people the only group denied our own cultural identity? My emphasis.

She was already muddying the waters between cultural identity and ethnicity.

nicepotoftea · 06/10/2026 16:12

Imnobody4 · 06/10/2026 15:54

What does it make you if you think they are all English with a non English heritage?

Whatever TheignT wants to be.

I think FIFA rules are as good as any if you want to argue who is English, but beyond that the only thing that has any administrative effect is your nationality and where you live.

nicepotoftea · 06/10/2026 16:14

BackToLurk · 06/10/2026 16:10

Viv's initial tweet read

Why is it that those of us who are born of English heritage, going back generations, are denied our ethnicity and called racist by people whose families moved here in the last generation or two? Why are English people the only group denied our own cultural identity? My emphasis.

She was already muddying the waters between cultural identity and ethnicity.

I'm interested to know how she thinks she is denied her ethnicity.

Dadalus · 06/10/2026 17:42

TheignT · 06/10/2026 15:51

If you think the grandchildren of French/German/Polish immigrants are English but the grandchildren of African/West Indian/Indian immigrants arent I think that is racist.

I think they are equally likely to be British by nationality, their sense of national identity is entirely up to them, and no one is ancestrally from a single place, so all you can say is the grandchild of the French person is likely to have more of a similarity in the birthplaces of their ancestors to an average Brit than the grandchild of someone the person from India.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/10/2026 18:01

nicepotoftea · 06/10/2026 16:08

I just want to make something clear. If there is ever any repatriation of people who emmigrated to America the Germans are getting Trump.

Why not the Scots? Doesn't the maternal line matter? 😉

nicepotoftea · 06/10/2026 18:14

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 06/10/2026 18:01

Why not the Scots? Doesn't the maternal line matter? 😉

We are keeping quiet about that.

TheignT · 06/10/2026 18:56

Imnobody4 · 06/10/2026 15:54

What does it make you if you think they are all English with a non English heritage?

Irish

TheignT · 06/10/2026 19:10

Dadalus · 06/10/2026 17:42

I think they are equally likely to be British by nationality, their sense of national identity is entirely up to them, and no one is ancestrally from a single place, so all you can say is the grandchild of the French person is likely to have more of a similarity in the birthplaces of their ancestors to an average Brit than the grandchild of someone the person from India.

So nothing to do with skin colour then. How about if the GPs are white from the West Indies?

Persephonia1966 · 06/10/2026 19:30

nicepotoftea · 06/10/2026 16:14

I'm interested to know how she thinks she is denied her ethnicity.

Especially since she started of by trying to set her own rules on someone else's identity. And then when people pointed out the inconsistencies/criticised this falls back to claiming her own identity is being denied. DARVO

Dadalus · 06/10/2026 21:11

Like John Cleese retiring to the Cayman Islands? I would like it if a Python was my grandparent.
Other than that I'm not sure what question you're asking.

TheignT · 06/10/2026 21:28

Dadalus · 06/10/2026 21:11

Like John Cleese retiring to the Cayman Islands? I would like it if a Python was my grandparent.
Other than that I'm not sure what question you're asking.

No idea what someone retiring has to do with anything

BackToLurk · 06/10/2026 21:39

TheignT · 06/10/2026 19:10

So nothing to do with skin colour then. How about if the GPs are white from the West Indies?

Or the French GC are the children of Thierry Henry.

Singasonga · 06/10/2026 21:49

Shedmistress · 06/10/2026 13:09

Why would they engage before you've explained your case? Which is what?

I explained it at length a few posts before the one you’re responding to, but apparently you’re so keen for a fight you’ve ignored that one.

Singasonga · 06/10/2026 21:53

Imnobody4 · 06/10/2026 14:29

Could you please define ethnicity? Does it exist? Is anyone entitled to claim to belong to an ethnic group in your view. If you reduce it to nationality what becomes of the Yazidis, Armenians and other minorities in larger totalitarian states.

Again: I wrote a lengthy post which absolutely no-one engaged with, but you’re the second person who’s jumped on this one to accuse me of not setting out a position. Which was the point of this post. I set out a positing, no-one responded, so I asked why and NOW you’re offended.

Dadalus · 06/10/2026 22:19

TheignT · 06/10/2026 21:28

No idea what someone retiring has to do with anything

Just a famous white person who emigrated to the West Indies who popped into my head. But as I said I didn't really understand the question.

Imnobody4 · 06/10/2026 22:45

Kathleen Stock's take.
https://www.thetimes.com/article/884f51b5-57d0-4711-a1f4-a9c212c01cc0?shareToken=82dd0e9df551441dba74a7c872e4dcba

'The obfuscation was not all on one side, however. It would have been simple for Braverman’s critics to concede she is not ethnically English but insist this has little to do with modern nationality. Instead, quite incredibly, some commentators sought to deny the existence of a distinctive English ethnicity altogether. One common move was to equate ethnicity with race, then declare triumphantly that English is not a race. But according to standard definition, ethnicity is not the same as race. There is usually a common genetic thread, but ethnicity is also about shared language, history and cultural symbols — continuity with the past, not total homogeneity.'

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https://www.thetimes.com/article/884f51b5-57d0-4711-a1f4-a9c212c01cc0?shareToken=82dd0e9df551441dba74a7c872e4dcba

ArabellaScott · 06/10/2026 23:54

'The assumption that if you can’t draw a clean line between two things, neither thing exists, is known as the fallacy of the continuum. It doesn’t work for biological species, where there is a lot of unavoidable vagueness round the edges, and it doesn’t work for ethnicity either'

BackToLurk · 07/10/2026 12:31

Interesting to see Kemi Badenoch commenting on this (Braverman's original comments rather than SS

I don’t want to live in a country run by people who...debate whether my mixed-race children are English.

I don’t want to explain to my son when I’m watching our brilliant England team play football that some people don’t think our black players are English.

I remember back in the day when Ian Wright and John Barnes were playing, nobody was questioning whether they were English. We certainly didn’t have sitting MPs questioning whether they were English.

I think she may be technically wrong on no one questioning the Englishness of Wright and Barnes, but it tended to be confined to the NF and similar, and her point about MPs still stands.

Persephonia1966 · 07/10/2026 12:51

BackToLurk · 07/10/2026 12:31

Interesting to see Kemi Badenoch commenting on this (Braverman's original comments rather than SS

I don’t want to live in a country run by people who...debate whether my mixed-race children are English.

I don’t want to explain to my son when I’m watching our brilliant England team play football that some people don’t think our black players are English.

I remember back in the day when Ian Wright and John Barnes were playing, nobody was questioning whether they were English. We certainly didn’t have sitting MPs questioning whether they were English.

I think she may be technically wrong on no one questioning the Englishness of Wright and Barnes, but it tended to be confined to the NF and similar, and her point about MPs still stands.

To be fair Enoch Powell did say black people could be citizens of Britain but never Englishmen but he was in a minority for that view then and for years after (even if people did like quoting his other stuff). I don't know if he ever commented on footballers.

It's not just the rising tide of racism being bad generally, it's also worrying how quickly quite well established commonly accepted definitions of Englishness are being overwritten and how the people overwriting it are then almost changing the past/arguing it has always been thus. Even hardcore tub thumping patriots liks Kipling didn't ascribe "Englishness" to a rigid ethnic/racial framework. Neither did Shakespeare, Blake, Defoe, Tolkien or Churchill or any of the major cultural touchstones of England. It was always a minority view in this country, I don't really care about how the Japanese etc did/do define themselves. So I have huge sympathy for people like Kemi Badenoch, but also resentment that actual Englishness and what that has always meant is effectively being erased. Often by people who aren't English themselves and have a somewhat patronising attitude to the country (I am thinking of Konstantin Kissin and right wing American types).

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