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The Bluestocking, a unique location for daughters and sisters of earth, frost, feathers, fur, scales and spines

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AsWithGlad · 04/09/2026 19:22

Welcome to The Bluestocking, the best (perhaps only) online women's pub. Nothing in the food or drink can harm you, everything is served by a very enthusiastic crew of gerbils, who enjoy doing this, and any curious menfolk are welcome at the Staunch Ally down the road.

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Welcome to The Bluestocking, the best (perhaps only) online women's pub. Nothing in the food or drink can harm you, everything is served by a very ent...

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EdithStourton · 13/09/2026 17:41

Woley, that just confirms that our joint decision to NOT have dogs on the bed was the right one.

MarieDeGournay · 13/09/2026 17:52

EdithStourton · 13/09/2026 17:41

Woley, that just confirms that our joint decision to NOT have dogs on the bed was the right one.

Very wise. Brains would be looking over your shoulder sighing dramatically at how impossibly long it was taking you to work out '9 down: divided city (5)' when she got it immediately.
Batshit would be.. well, who knows? but it wouldn't be restful, I fear...Grin

I tried very hard not to laugh, Woley, honest I did.....😑

DauntlessDamson · 13/09/2026 19:08

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 13/09/2026 15:48

I used to have a big glass of water by the bed every night, until the sound of slurping woke me up one night, and I found CatBastard drinking my water - heaven knows how many times he’d done it before, without me noticing! I use a water bottle now. This also makes it harder for me to spill my drink everywhere -Dh did once manage to knock over a full pint of Ribena, into our cream carpet - that took some clearing up, in the small hours of the morning. We were stripping the bed because the dog had had an accident on it, so it was already not the best night. Just to put the tin lid on it, the following morning, the other dog got up on the bed, snuggled up on my shoulder, and threw up in my ear.

I spent the rest of the day washing, drying and ironing two full sets of bedding.

The joys of having pets - and DHs! Grin

EdithStourton · 13/09/2026 19:18

Hare Valley this afternoon.

It had pissed down over night, and on and off all day, so it was welly time.

The first hare got up and ran before we'd even made our way into the first field. And even prior to that, two huge raptors took off from the trees alongside the grassy drift down the hill. My automatic assumption was 'buzzards', but I looked again. I couldn't see the underwing pattern against the sky, and although they had the classic forked tails of kites, buzzards' tails can looked forked during some aerial manoeuvres. But they didn't fly like buzzards (they flapped steadily off towards the horizon, after one had done a quick circuit to take a look at us), their wings looked longer and narrower, and they were disarmingly quiet. Buzzards like to tell everyone all about it.

As did the young buzzard who took off from the first field as the hare belted off and we came into view. He (I'm assuming a young male, as he was tiny for a buzzard, and the boys are smaller than the girls) made a massive fuss, calling very loudly, settling in some trees and then changing his mind and finding himself a very elevated and exposed spot where he could hunch his wings and stare down at us. He wasn't impressed that we'd disturbed his search for worms, or voles, or whatever it was.

By the time we left the first field we'd seen four more hares; we then saw another five in the last field. Some of them could be seen on our approach, and the dogs informed me of their presence, but behaved impeccably. Batshit was less good about the half a dozen pheasant poults we came across on the way back. They were young and foolish travellers, not bright enough to see dogs and disappear into the thick cover behind them, and Batshit required a stern reminder that one can flush birds, but that is all. They scattered into the air and along the stream, and B&B had a good splash around trying to find them, but they'd gone.

All in all, a great wildlife afternoon. At one point I had a pheasant, two hares and two buzzards in sight all at once, which was rather good.

The ditches have so much water in them that they're running again, and the stream was fairly swirling along. The huge cracks in the soil are slowly closing as the clay swells, and the going underfoot feels appreciably softer. It was a lovely walk. As ever, I feel so lucky to have access to places like that.

ErrolTheDragon · 13/09/2026 20:19

And we’re lucky to have you recount such walks so evocatively, Edith.

MyrtleLion · 13/09/2026 21:43

So lovely to read your updates, everyone. I hope you are all feeling as well as you possibly can in the circumstances, FAWAYPCITC.

The next chapter is drafted but needs a heavy edit. I have been womanning in the arena all day so haven't been able to look at it. I also have to apply for a job this week, and I am quietly confident this time.

I hope to bring you some Gosie this week, but until I can leave this particular arena, it will be patchy. There may be some respite for a few days though.

I am also going to an event tomorrow evening that I am excited by, but if I tell you what it is, I will have to kill you all as it will reveal my location and I don't know who most of you are and I'm really not inclined to kill any of you.

So just know that the Walrus and I are going out to a thing and it will be very lovely.

JanesLittleGirl · 13/09/2026 22:00

MyrtleLion · 13/09/2026 21:43

So lovely to read your updates, everyone. I hope you are all feeling as well as you possibly can in the circumstances, FAWAYPCITC.

The next chapter is drafted but needs a heavy edit. I have been womanning in the arena all day so haven't been able to look at it. I also have to apply for a job this week, and I am quietly confident this time.

I hope to bring you some Gosie this week, but until I can leave this particular arena, it will be patchy. There may be some respite for a few days though.

I am also going to an event tomorrow evening that I am excited by, but if I tell you what it is, I will have to kill you all as it will reveal my location and I don't know who most of you are and I'm really not inclined to kill any of you.

So just know that the Walrus and I are going out to a thing and it will be very lovely.

I would happily wait for a month for the next Gosie episode in return for you getting where you want and deserve to be.

Look after yourself first.

X, Janes'

EdithStourton · 13/09/2026 22:42

What Jane said.
Enjoy the event, and all the best for the application.

Chickadeeinme · 13/09/2026 23:17

E-hugs (if acceptable) and sympathies to all poorly and wounded Bluestockingers, and to those afflicted by DIY woes. This weekend seems to have flown away with me, and tomorrow seems likely to do the same DH has to be up ultra-early to be at the hospital for an MRI on his lower back at 7am (unholy hour for medical stuff). We are crossing our fingers that nothing that will prevent our departure on our trip to the UK on September 30th is going to show up.

AsWithGlad · Yesterday 05:08

EdithStourton · 13/09/2026 22:42

What Jane said.
Enjoy the event, and all the best for the application.

What Jane and Edith have both said.

No, I have not just googled “Events in my area today,” in case I might live near to Myrtle.
I use a different search engine.

All the best for a successful time in the arena, @MyrtleLion , and with the job application.

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EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 06:08

What Jane, Edith & Glad said, and good luck to the Chickadees.

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 07:38

JanesLittleGirl · 13/09/2026 22:00

I would happily wait for a month for the next Gosie episode in return for you getting where you want and deserve to be.

Look after yourself first.

X, Janes'

Awww, thank you! 😍

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 07:40

I only saw Janes message and then I saw the rest! Thank you everyone!! ❤

And I hope Mr Chickadee is as fine as can be expected.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 09:35

EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 06:08

What Jane, Edith & Glad said, and good luck to the Chickadees.

From me too, @MyrtleLion.

PastaAllaNorma · Yesterday 10:14

Take your time, Myrtle, both for the arena and the post arena recovery.

We're driving into Barcelona at the moment and even the inner ring road has stained glass here!

The Bluestocking, a unique location for daughters and sisters of earth, frost, feathers, fur, scales and spines
EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 10:28

PastaAllaNorma · Yesterday 10:14

Take your time, Myrtle, both for the arena and the post arena recovery.

We're driving into Barcelona at the moment and even the inner ring road has stained glass here!

Look out for marks, Pasta!

DauntlessDamson · Yesterday 10:34

Another vote for Myrtle concentrating on her own life, both in and out of the arena, while the need is there. I'm sure Gosie and the rest of the crew will have lots of adventures to relate, all the better for waiting.

Hope you and Mr Walrus enjoy you event this evening. 🌻

NotAtMyAge · Yesterday 11:50

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 09:35

From me too, @MyrtleLion.

And me, Myrtle.

WearyAuldWumman · Yesterday 11:53

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 09:35

From me too, @MyrtleLion.

The same!

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 18:09

In foot-news today, I managed to drive myself in (it's a very short commute) and spent most of the day sitting down, some of it with my foot up. It's held up pretty well and although the bruising is starting to come out, it feels ok. Will keep it elevated until bedtime now.

I think I might indulge in a therapeutic hot chocolate later, though. That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it!

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 18:11

I am sure the hot chocolate is medically necessary, @Magpiecomplex. And I was a nurse, so I would know.

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 18:16

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 18:11

I am sure the hot chocolate is medically necessary, @Magpiecomplex. And I was a nurse, so I would know.

Excellent! Thank you Nurse Woley!

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 21:29

Ooh, I forgot to mention that I'm about to acquire another set of letters after my name. Can tell I'm an academic 😆
The jury is out on whether my business cards should be a mini scroll, concertina fold or gatefold.

ErrolTheDragon · Yesterday 21:41

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 21:29

Ooh, I forgot to mention that I'm about to acquire another set of letters after my name. Can tell I'm an academic 😆
The jury is out on whether my business cards should be a mini scroll, concertina fold or gatefold.

Maybe make them double sided?Grin

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 21:48

ErrolTheDragon · Yesterday 21:41

Maybe make them double sided?Grin

They already are - logo on the back! Although how cool would a Möbius business card be?