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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Reality Rules Parkrun Launch 3 October 2026

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IwantToRetire · 31/08/2026 00:48

Today was another Parkrun Saturday and like every weekend the achievements by women was demoted by men running in the female category.

We are hoping to change this! In only a few weeks time, we will debut Reality Rules Runners UK at Parkrun. We hope that many hundreds (hopefully thousands) of you will join us to send a clear and strong statement to Parkrun about the huge support there is for fairness and sex-based categories at their events.

All sports events are responsible for putting on fair events. This includes free, volunteer run, community events like Parkrun.

So please tell people about Reality Rules Runners UK, as we are hoping to attract lots more supporters before our debut at Parkrun on 3 October.

Thank you! 🙏

https://realityrulesrunnersuk.substack.com/p/another-parkrun-down-only-a-few-weeks

Came across this by chance, so dont know more than this!

They are also on X for anyone on X https://x.com/RRRunnersUK

Another Parkrun down, only a few weeks to go

Today was another Parkrun Saturday and like every weekend the achievements by women was demoted by men running in the female category.

https://realityrulesrunnersuk.substack.com/p/another-parkrun-down-only-a-few-weeks

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Raspbellies · Yesterday 11:42

Jeska might be able to ask to have his times changed to male. Depends if he can email from prison though.

Parkrun treat women so badly. They really don't care about accurate data or fairness for girls and women.

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 11:43

MiddleAgedDread · Yesterday 11:18

Firstly, the way they've written this makes it sound like this is happening at every parkrun across the land. I'd like to see their stats on how often this if happening, or suspected to be happening, because in all my years of being a parkrunner, Run Director, touring many different events, and being on a number of different parkrun social forums I have only heard of one individual being reported for this so it definitely isn't impacting many people's weekly parkrun results. parkrun scrapped the stats of things like course records and male/female first finishers a while back (although they're still there if you know how to find them).
When you register there's the option to select from male/female/another gender identity/prefer not to day. Now I guess that trans people should be picking "another gender identity" but if they identify as male or female then that's probably what they're going to select.
Also, the majority of people won't actually know or care if their gender position is one place lower than it should rightfully be and given the inaccuracies in some results it might not be 100% anyway. People can also lie about their age should they wish to.
Ultimately, it's a volunteer led event, there's no prize money for "winning" (technically it's a run not a race) and you can register under any persona without being verified or run without being registered.
Yes, i agree that the female category should have females being compared equally against each other, but it's parkrun not the fucking Olympics or even a paid for race!!

I'd like to see their stats on how often this if happening, or suspected to be happening, because in all my years of being a parkrunner, Run Director, touring many different events, and being on a number of different parkrun social forums I have only heard of one individual being reported for this so it definitely isn't impacting many people's weekly parkrun results.

Or in other words, what's a little light blatant sexism if it's only happening in a few places?

But if it only affects a few places, I'm even more baffled at the reluctance to set fair rules.

parkrun scrapped the stats of things like course records and male/female first finishers a while back (although they're still there if you know how to find them)

They publish the results every week.

Also, the majority of people won't actually know or care if their gender position is one place lower than it should rightfully be and given the inaccuracies in some results it might not be 100% anyway.

So why provide this information?

People can also lie about their age should they wish to.

Yes, but the expectation is set that they won't. That is all that is being asked for. An expectation that people will submit accurate information so that information provided to women has the same quality as information provided to men.

but it's parkrun not the fucking Olympics or even a paid for race!!

So again, your argument is that a little light sexism can be ignored if it isn't the fucking Olympics? Why? Again I'm genuinely baffled.

If the results are important they should be fair.

if the results aren't important why provide comparative results?

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 11:44

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Again, your desire to see hatred when women just want fair and accurate information is not doing you any good.

MiddleAgedDread · Yesterday 12:05

@ArabellaScott £4m for a global business is hardly a big turnover!! They barely employ any staff and those they do are paid peanuts.

RowsOfFlowers · Yesterday 12:08

iwishitwouldstartraining · Yesterday 11:44

Again, your desire to see hatred when women just want fair and accurate information is not doing you any good.

100%

Apollo441 · Yesterday 12:09

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I'm brown and grew up on a council estate and I'll be supporting them. I have never met the people you describe at any GC meet ups. You really do talk out of your arse.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 12:28

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Are you OK? Your rants are getting more & more unhinged & incomprehensible. Rather unpleasant too. Perhaps you should give Mumsnet a rest as it obviously upsets you so much?

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 12:43

MiddleAgedDread · Yesterday 12:05

@ArabellaScott £4m for a global business is hardly a big turnover!! They barely employ any staff and those they do are paid peanuts.

They turned a profit of around £160k last year. Plus assets of over half a mil. According to the accounts.

If they pay their staff badly, then that's not exactly in their favour.

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 12:44

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 12:28

Are you OK? Your rants are getting more & more unhinged & incomprehensible. Rather unpleasant too. Perhaps you should give Mumsnet a rest as it obviously upsets you so much?

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That poster's posts are getting noticeably more deranged.

murasaki · Yesterday 12:49

Shades of Jolyon, and for similar reasons.

PollyNomial · Yesterday 13:21

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 10:55

Just signed up for Parkrun.

I was surprised that

  1. You have to declare your 'gender' (or 'prefer not to say'), there's no option to just sign up without one.
  2. It seems to be harvesting data for sale to advertisers.
  3. Lots of sponsorship.

I got a funny feeling that the 'it's all for laughs' is actually just branding. It seems quite bossy, and concurrently mercenary. And from the aggressive dismissal of women's complaints, seems very blokey.

Anyway.

The 'prefer not to say' option allows you to not sign up by giving a gender for goodness sake...

Seriestwo · Yesterday 13:33

I’ve never done park run but I’d do it with this club.

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 13:47

PollyNomial · Yesterday 13:21

The 'prefer not to say' option allows you to not sign up by giving a gender for goodness sake...

But then why is it an obligatory question? Just seems a bit weird. Forcing you to make a declaration. If it doesn't matter, don't ask the fecking question!

PriOn1 · Yesterday 13:49

It’s frustrating that they are enabling men who claim they are women over women.

I know they probably can’t police it, and there will be some asshole men who deliberately choose the wrong category, but it would be acknowledged that those men are being provocative and unreasonable in cheating, whereas at the moment, Parkrun are implying the women objecting are provocative and unreasonable.

I know transactivists are refusing to comply with what the law expects of them, but while others enable and encourage it, it will never get better for women.

I hope there’s a big turnout and the objectors are successful in their aims.

SirChenjins · Yesterday 13:57

PollyNomial · Yesterday 13:21

The 'prefer not to say' option allows you to not sign up by giving a gender for goodness sake...

And yet it seems that having the option to claim that you're female when you're not seems very important to some men.

BirdLandedonmyHead · Yesterday 14:06

Sime solution would be categories for Transwomen and Transmen
Give them an opportunity to compeye against each other.

But they dont want that. Its not validation.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 14:48

murasaki · Yesterday 12:49

Shades of Jolyon, and for similar reasons.

TPA didn't even claim to have a "trans" kid of their own when they first started posting on FWR back in January only to be a relative of two trans kids. They claim to be female but the mad aggressive insulting posting style screams male to me. Perhaps it is Jolyon?

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 14:49

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 13:47

But then why is it an obligatory question? Just seems a bit weird. Forcing you to make a declaration. If it doesn't matter, don't ask the fecking question!

Under GDPR you shouldn't be collecting & storing personal data without a good reason.

murasaki · Yesterday 14:54

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 14:48

TPA didn't even claim to have a "trans" kid of their own when they first started posting on FWR back in January only to be a relative of two trans kids. They claim to be female but the mad aggressive insulting posting style screams male to me. Perhaps it is Jolyon?

I thought they'd non binaried themself over the months.

Jesus that was a clunky sentence to type!

KaleidoscopeSmile · Yesterday 14:56

RowsOfFlowers · Yesterday 09:09

I do not think OP is spreading vitriol.

I participate in parkrun and I’m a biological female. I would hope that the categories and statistics are accurate. I full well know it’s not a competition, but why have the stats and announce “fastest runners” on the pages then?

It’s just another pocket of society where women’s right to their own category is being encroached by men. When will this end?

It won't end whilst they still have fucking handmaidens supporting them. They revolt me more than the men doing it.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 14:57

murasaki · Yesterday 14:54

I thought they'd non binaried themself over the months.

Jesus that was a clunky sentence to type!

Are they male NB or female NB?😀

RowsOfFlowers · Yesterday 15:35

KaleidoscopeSmile · Yesterday 14:56

It won't end whilst they still have fucking handmaidens supporting them. They revolt me more than the men doing it.

I’ve noticed that and it really annoys me !

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 17:47

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 14:49

Under GDPR you shouldn't be collecting & storing personal data without a good reason.

Good point.

ArabellaScott · Yesterday 17:48

If 'gender' doesn't matter so hard, then why don't Parkrun just scrap all 'gender' records?

If it's not a race, why time it?

Mouldemort · Yesterday 18:28

Gender critical people are more than welcome to set up their own community-based runs restricted to those who share your protected beliefs. Stop hassling the immensely popular, perfectly legal, and inclusive Park Run.